(Closed) My ceremony is boring

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
3121 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Personally, I think it sound beautiful.  Remember that the words are very important, but it will also be the way you two are looking at your, your families reactions, your personal written vows.  Would you possibly consider adding music?  We are going to have “Ave Maria” sung during our unity candle.  What about as you’re walking down the aisle?

Post # 4
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Maybe you could have someone else (siblings, close friends or family members who aren’t in the wedding party) do a short reading or two that you like?  Having different people speak might make things more interesting.

Post # 5
4419 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I understand not wanting your ceremony to be boring, but the purpose of the ceremony is not to be entertaining. It’s not a show. Only have things in your ceremony that have meaning to the two of you, and don’t worry about it being boring. If it moves you, your guests will be moved too. 

Post # 8
2273 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012


We are using the apache reading too, it is beautiful isn’t it, and on my stipulation not too “mushy” haha. 

Also unless you are doing a mass ceremony they are usually short and sweet, most people don’t  think of the ceremony as the entertaining part that’s the symbolic part, the entertainment is the reception 🙂

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