(Closed) my cousin hates everything I want and is trying to take over my wedding

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I know you stated that you have tried to talk to her, but I suggest trying again. Take out to lunch and have a heart to heart with her. Just tell her the same things you told us here; she should be fine with that. If she isn’t, maybe you need to find someone else to bounce ideas off of.

Post # 4
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

it happend to me with my cousin, she never got married and is a single mom. she just gives negative comments and weird advices.

and even try to decide and things about my wedding,

i talk to her, and ask her to please give me some space to prepare my own wedding, and to relax, becouse she will only be a bridesmaid not the bride.

i just dont listen to what she saids, and i pretended everything is allready done, so she wont even have a chance to say anything

Post # 5
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1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Okay, so she doesn’t listen, ignores what you want, tries to make you feel bad about your decisions and makes decisions without your okay? And twice in your post, you say, “I really want her input”??  If her input is not helping you, then why do you want it so badly?

If I were you, I would stop involving her and find someone else you actually trust to give you helpful input.

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