- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Ok. So as you know I am finally done with this guy. let me rewind a few months before this…. ok we will call the abusive guy Mr. ex. Well mr. ex was doing another mind game breakup with me. It’s obvious I was starting to get sick of it, because instead of running to his house to work it out, I drove out of state to my best friends house about 3 hrs. away. Well she is married and her husbands cousin was there… I remember EXACTLY what he was wearing… and I remember EXACTLY what I was thinking, this guy is IT. So we hang out over the weekend while i am up there.he was SOOO nice. In a real genuine nervous kind of way. Nothing cocky. Just someone who was a kind, genuine person. Well the whole time I am with this guy Mr. ex is blowin up my phone, sending me facebook messages, acting like I am in so much trouble when I get home… blah blah. Well this was back when I still felt like I had to salvage the relationship because of how long I had been with him (bad idea). So before I leave Mr… we will call him godsend… Mr. godsend tried to kiss me… (all nervous of course) and me, being oh so dumb turned him down. Drove home and eventually got back together with Mr. ex.
Ok… Over the next few months leading up to the (almost) final straw, I could NOT stop thinking about mr. godsend. He reminded me of a certain character off of a tv show… I started watching the tv show!!!! Then while looking at pictures from my best friends wedding (the one I stayed with) I saw a picture of the table I was sitting at HE WAS SITTING RIGHT BESIDE ME now her wedding was months before I even hung out with the guy!!!! It was pure coincidence… now here I am wondering if this is some sort of sign. Ok this is all abut the same time Mr. ex punched me in the ribs. He was writing me letters cleaning my apartment, flowers he was on his hands and knees wanting me to take him back. So me and Mr. Ex are still talking things over. I still have Mr. godsend on the brain, so I am feeling conflicted. I really didn’t want to be with Mr. ex anymore!!!!!
So the night mr. ex is supposed to come over I call my best friend to chat while I’m waiting. Well I asked her how Mr. godsend was doing… she says,” you didn’t know?” HE HAD GOTTEN A NEW JOB AND MVED TO THE SAME CITY AS ME!!!! I immediately hung up, call mr. ex… broke it off for GOOD… then contacted Mr. godsend. We made plans for the weekend, hit it off and fast forward 13 months later and we live together and are hoping to get married next fall. He treats me better than I could ever imagine… he is so loving and kind and he makes me laugh every day!!!! I am so completely attracted to him, and soooo thankful for him. He is my best friend, he would never EVER lay a hand on me. This guy pursued me… tells me he can’t believe he has me (I can) and he is just sooo amazing I could gush for hours!!!! ha ha. He is so excited to marry me… and I can’t believe how great life turned out to be. I feel like I finally woke up from a really lng nightmare. That is the best way to describe it. ahhhh… sorry it was so long… I still left ut A LOT of things!!! but wh wants to read a three hour post? LOL thanks for reading (if anyone stuck through it)