(Closed) My dad is so delusional!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry you are going through this.  Hugs.  

So are you going to write it? If I were I would decline nicely, only because I don’t really know the bride.  

Post # 5
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

to try to cheer you up… call your brother and tell him this is his ringbearer outfit ๐Ÿ™‚

im sure a 16yr old would love it!



 your dad isnt doing much for the encore bride industry i tell ya

Post # 7
1037 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Carlouel Yacht Club

Ughhhhh that is ridiculous. Good for you for rolling with the punches on this though. That really stinks that you are having to change your date, but you’re the better person in the end…so keep your chin up!

Post # 8
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Maybe I’m just a bad person, but if all those people already said they were going to mine instead of his, I would just stick with the plans I’d alraedy made and not change my date. I don’t think anyone would make you feel bad about it, they all seem to know and understand the situation. If you do want to change it, I guess that makes you a MUCH better person than me!

Post # 9
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Awwww i remember your post about your dad stealing your date! I agree with you that it is the most ridiculous thing that I have ever heard to have a 16 year old ringbearer and 19 year old flower girl! Families are super crazy huh? No matter who you are, it always seems like something like this comes up (you are not alone!!!) You are handling this situation better than anyone I know could…even me! Seriously, you have an amazing attitude about all of this! Keep it up!!!

Post # 10
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Hahaha… my cousin had a 16 yo flower girl. ๐Ÿ˜‰ It was INSANE. She actually had her buy a large size of a child’s dress. This was not a child size shaped young lady, if you get my drift. (That was after she asked my step-sister, who was 19 at the time, to be the flower girl. She must have really wanted a flower girl, and not had any young children to ask?)

Post # 12
314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@ eloping – Hilarious!

You really are a saint for trying to keep the peace as you are. I’d definitely be too stubborn for that! Best of luck to you. I really hope you can now move forward with your own wedding day and not have any further drama from your father. Sheesh!!

Post # 13
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

O my gosh the flower girl and ring bear thing is really funny but i’m so sorry he’s being so selfish. Maybe if you switch do it the week before I’m sure that would help guests come to yours if they can only go to one.

Post # 14
117 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That’s horrible and I’m sorry you have to change your date!

About the older ring bearer/flower girl, I attended a wedding last spring where the flower girl and ringbearer were both older female friends of the couple. They already had a lot of BMs/GMs and wanted to include them somehow. They ened up wearing matching dresses that coordinated with the BMs and it was really cute.

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