Post # 1
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Busy bee
So, my Dad is probably one of my coolest Dads ever. I love him. But he can be a little much sometimes. My Fiance is coming down with me for my shower/bachelorette weekend and so my Dad decided to throw him a bachelor party due to the fact that he doesn’t have a best man and so he was afraid he wouldn’t get one. I figured they would go out drinking, maybe a strip club or something. I had no problem with any of it, I am not the jealous type and he is not the wandering eye type.
My Dad was telling me some of the details he has planned for the party and all of it sounded fine until he mentioned that he was going to rent a porn DVD and have it playing in the background while the guys were pre-gaming at his house. This just kind of caught me off guard because I am just irked at the idea of my Fiance watching porn in the same room as my Dad. For some reason, going to the strip club doesn’t bother me but the porn thing does. I guess because porn is usually for men when they are alone… cough cough nudge nudge. But this porn is going to be playing in a room for like ten men to see. Also, I think my Fiance would think it was terribly awkward. I told my Dad that maybe he should rethink the porn thing, but he is DEAD SET ON IT! Like it’s the best idea he has had in his life and just tells me to chill out.
How would you feel about this? Am I off for thinking this is strange or inappropriate for my Dad to do with my FI?
Post # 3
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Honey bee
@Firinne: I think its strange, but I think its equally strange your your dad to take his daughter’s Fiance to a strip club.
Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
OMG I love the photo LOL. I would just be like dad, that might be a little much. Maybe tone it down on the porn DVD and just play the radio.
Post # 5
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Honey bee
@Firinne: Nope. It’s totally weird. At the very least, awkard. But if your dad is set on it, I wouldn’t mention it to your Fiance and let it be a crazy surprise. 🙂
Post # 6
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Busy bee
@StuporDuck: Surprise!!! You’re going to be forced to watch porn with my Dad and 9 guys you hardly know!!!!!!!!!!!! hahaha
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
I am horrified your Dad would talk about porn with you. Yikes =/ I hope it all works out..
Post # 8
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Honey bee
@Firinne: Yup! Designate someone to take pictures of his reaction! BWAHAHAHAHAA!
Post # 9
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Busy bee
@asscherlover: I don’t feel weird about the strip club. not sure why. Maybe cause it’s dark usually and you can hide your embarrisment and guys typically go in groups a lot? haha My Dad just feels like it’s his responsiblity to give my Fiance an awesome party and it just isn’t awesome without porn? My Dad’s nuts. I guess I am more nervous for my Fiance. I just don’t want him to be like, WTF???? * face palm*
Post # 10
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Busy bee
@mixtapehearts: We are a chill family. Not horrified easily.
Post # 11
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Busy bee
@StuporDuck: Omg though, we have a four hour drive down to my families town. I don’t know if I can keep it a secret in the car for that long!
Post # 12
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Honey bee
@Firinne: Welllllllll…. on a positive note, your dad going through such pains to ensure an enjoyable time for him MUST mean he really likes him! There’s a silver lining there. 🙂
Post # 13
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Busy bee
Ohmygod, your dad is AWESOME.
But the porn playing in the background is def. verrrry awkward. 😛 But hilarious. Have you mentioned it to your FI?
Post # 14
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Busy bee
@Vidya: I haven’t. My Dad just told me about it during my break at work. Fiance is at school. Not sure if I should tell him or not.
Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
im probably more uncomfortable thinking about my dad with strippers than i am thinking about my fiance with strippers.
soooo, theres my answer.
good luck with this one!
Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
omg haha I can’t wait to hear how it goes – that is super awkard (for FI) but your dad sounds pretty awesome!!
