(Closed) My dad is way out of line…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Double post

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Wow. You’re right, that is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of line. I am so, so sorry! Your father has to know that he can’t treat you this way. Are you able to enlist the help of your mother? If not, how about the help of a recorder? It sounds far fetched, but maybe he needs to hear himself doing this.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m really sorry.  I agree with MissHelen… I think it is possible that he just doesn’t know how he sounds. 

If that doesn’t help, yes, I would cut off contact with him, at least temporarily.  You don’t deserve to be treated that way.  Try to visit with your other family members at your house or another location.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

If I were you, I wouldn’t visit your father until he gets help and promises to change his tune. You do not have to endure his abuse! Is there a way you can visit your mom and younger brother somewhere else? Your dad needs help. So sorry….

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’m so sorry potatoes. But you know, you’re doing everything that you can and you’re behaving heroically in a ridiculous situation.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

You’re being harassed on social media sites?

ETA: Because if that’s the case you should contact the admins, or leave them entirely or create a pen name. You don’t have to put up with that.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

That totally blows 🙁

But hey, soon you’ll be rid of him!

Post # 15
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Busy bee

I’m so glad you are standing up for yourself.  You are right to stay away, and I’m sure you will find a way to continue a relationship with your mom and brother.  Just because parents are older it doesn’t necessarily make them more mature.

Kudos to your Boyfriend or Best Friend for sticking up for you and to your grandparents for sharing their home with you.  Hang in there my dear.

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