- 4 years ago
I’m getting married in May in Jamaica. We won our wedding, and our guests only needed to cover the taxes $400 all inclusive 5 star resort. Even before we won we planned on a wedding in Jamaica from the very beginning my dad said he wouldn’t come because it cost to much would have been aproxx$1500 for two. My dad is re married and had gone to my step sisters wedding about two years before when mine will be with no complaints. I am his only real daughter and they got married when we were all teangers. And to boot he was never close to my step sister I think the no complaints was because of my step mother. Anyways my mom got upset and told my dad he had to go so all of a sudden he was going, great! I was happy… Now one month away from my wedding everything is paid and done. It’s Easter weekend and I call my dad up to ask him when we can go get his suit. In conversation I ask what he’s doing. He replys that our whole family is over for Easter dinner. I was shocked and said oh I wasn’t invited? i was upset now since my dad got remarried I kind of feel he replaced me with his new family, and when my step mother is not around I can be his daughter again. I guess he didn’t like my comment so he blew up on me told me he would for fit the money he paid to go to my wedding and he no longer was coming. Before I could say two words he hung up on me. Five min. Later my step mother text me and said she’s sorry I didn’t get invited how about I come for dinner another night…. How rude! I don’t know why I’m the black sheep in the family because when she’s not around my dad calls me just to say hi. my step mother throws how great her daughter is in my face all the time. We were both pregnant at the same time but I had a miscarriage we were devastated we had been on fertility for a year to try and get pregnant. My step mom continued to talk to me about how great her daughter was doing and when the baby was born she posted all the pic on Facebook. I didn’t want to take her happiness away any baby is a blessing but when they found out I miscarried all they said was “ok”. It was heart broken. now that I’m pregnant again finally things are going well my step sister told me if we had a boy she will give me her hand downs…. No thank you. I dont know all this is happening I’m pregnant so my hormoans are all over the place. Everyone tells me my dad will come around and talk to me again and come. I honestly think he will only change his mind because he doesn’t want to waist the money. I don’t want him to come anymore, I think I’ll be fine my mom Can walk me down the aile and we will have lots of my dad’s family there to support me . I feel like he really doesn’t want to be there and it’s worth more trouble then what it’s worth. I only have a week to change the names so the money isn’t completely waiste but I don’t know what to do. He hasn’t talked to me since and I kind of don’t want to talk tO him. He used such a small thing to jump to fine I won’t come to ur weddding! What do I do?