(Closed) My dads not coming…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3306 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

your Dad hates you? Man, I’m so…how does that even work? Actually, don’t answer that. Just know I’m very sorry to hear you’re going through this and if I could, I’d give you a big hug!

To answer your question, IDK whether my parents will be attending my wedding. They don’t hate me, but they are SO offended that we did not seek their blessing/permission before getting engaged (among other things) that they are trying to punish me by threatening not to come. My mother eventually asked me, in front of my Dad, whether I was going to have anyone walk me down the aisle (at this point, they were still saying they weren’t coming). So I nervously just kinda said “yeah, umm…I guess.” And she replied “well are you going to formally ask him or not?!” Wait, what? Formally ask the person who told me they weren’t coming? For what, so he can hurt my feelings again? I didn’t formally ask him (bc afterall, who formally asks their effing FATHER to walk them down the aisle? It should be a given) and we haven’t talked about it since. For all I know, neither of them will actually show up.

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