(Closed) My dads partner asked me how much money we received for gifts,

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Rude!

Post # 5
Hostess
12103 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

hilarious.

 

I know I’ll be asked that too.  Some people just don’t have a problem talking about money like that.

Post # 6
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635 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Ugh. Awkward! I wouldn’t be surprised if FI’s family asked us something like that…if he didn’t go ahead and tell them first…he just loves to tell people how much money we have! So bizarre…

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

That sounds like my grandma! She always wants to know how much everything cost.  My younger brother just graduated high school and had his open house the other day, the first thing she asked him was how much money did you get! 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I hate discussing money with people.  I think if anyone asks, I’ll just say something vague about all the beautiful cards and how lucky we are to have so many amazing people in our lives to dodge the question.

Post # 9
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504 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

just say” enough to get all the beautiful things we wanted”  end of discussion- no one’s business

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I know someone is going to ask me this question.

So rude! I’ll just probably say something like “More than we expected – we have such generous friends/family”

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

My mom asked the question – and, in a fluster, I answered. She’s always had problems with boundaries, and as an adult I’m still learning to enforce them. Sometimes I’ll give away tidbits of personal information lest I awaken a demon.

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