(Closed) My double standard – I KNOW I’m being ridiculous… BUT…

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Go with him? He invited you πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww, sucky. I usually just complain to my friends when that happens to me. I’ve definitely been there! πŸ™

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@bakerella:  I second this.  

We all have our irrational jealousies at times so why not go to the bar tonight (he did invite you so this would not be the slightest bit crazy) and spend some time with your Darling Husband.  It will put your mind at ease and you might even enjoy yourself!  πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would totally go meet them!

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m a super jealous person… I agree with alll the PP’s I’d go to the bar with them… it’s not a problem at all since he invited you! πŸ˜‰

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

There’s a saying out there: Those with nothing to hide always hide nothing. Sooooo– I think that says it all since he invited you along. Don’t sweat it. Maybe try to get to know this girl a little so you can see her as a person rather than a threat.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@StuporDuck: agreed.

He invited you, so go! You might actually see that this person isnt the big deal you have turn her into in your mind.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think you have nothing to worry about, since he invited you along.  That being said, I think I would totally be feeling the same as you if Fiance had a girl friend!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@oracle:Been there.  If you ever find a way to not be jealous, clue me in.  I hate when other girls have the attention of my Fiance, even if it is completely harmless.  I think it is just “women” nature.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@coffeegal85: I don’t think it’s really “women” nature–I’m not really a jealous person at all, despite having been cheated on in past relationships. I think it has more to do with your personal nature than your gender!

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper

@oracle: That kind of stuff makes me insecure, too, but I think we’re all prone to insecurities at times, in different capacities. Don’t be too hard on yourself!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

put on the sexiest dress you have and go with him and make sure she KNOWS that he is YOURS!! good luck.

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