(Closed) My DUMBA$$ FI….SERIOUSLY!!!????? Vent post!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Oh dear :-/ I guess there’s not much you can do because it is his body. If you don’t like it for the wedding, perhaps he can wear a long sleeved shirt?

Post # 4
2680 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

While I don’t agree with you, if it’s something you two agreed on, then yeah, it sucks :/ ..I guess that boy is wearing long sleeves at the wedding & at church haha.

Post # 5
788 posts
Busy bee

Tanleggedjuliet:  I can absolutely understand why you’re upset about this. It’s frustrating when the person you love turns around and does the exact opposite of what you discussed. However, do you really think that turning around and reciprocating with the exact behavior that made you angry is the best idea? To me it seems like maybe you should talk about it first instead of running out and disrespecting him and his ideas the same way that he disrespected yours. 

That being said: your hair, your choice. I just tend to discourage vindictive behavior whenever possible. 

Post # 6
1891 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I wonder what English words Asian people have written on them. 

Post # 8
7413 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014


Post # 10
3075 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

I’d be annoyed too! Especially since it could’ve at the very least waited until after the wedding, & he could’ve gotten those symbols anywhere but he chose his forearm?

Post # 11
412 posts
Helper bee

That doesn’t look like a “full sleeve” at all to me.  Just a tattoo on the forearm.  Anyways, it is his body.  You should stop trying to control him.

Post # 12
788 posts
Busy bee

Tanleggedjuliet:  careful with that behavior too. I say this somewhatjokingly but the marriage advice that my mom offered me before I got married was “Never make a threat you won’t follow through on”. While a little dark, she’s sort of right. Make too many threats that you don’t follow through with and they just become empty words. It was good advice for me, thought I’d pass it along. Hope everything works out for you. 

Post # 13
811 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Tanleggedjuliet:  tie it back in a way that makes it look short (or flip it over your head and take a pic from the side) and send it to him. Tee hee 🙂

Post # 14
4767 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d be livid, but tattos are not my thing at all.  I think there are 2 faults here.

He wanted a sleeve.  his body his choice.  You don’t really have a right to tell him he can’t.

2nd is that he kinda acted like a rebelious teenager adn went and did something because you asked him not to.  He should have waited until after the wedding.

But really if you want to marry him there is no point in being mad, casue it’s there and it’s not going anywhere.

Post # 15
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Tanleggedjuliet:  I’m a little confused. It looks like he already has an old tattoo on his inner forearm. If you discussed only getting half sleeves so they could be covered up, why does he already have a tattoo below the elbow? 

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