(Closed) My Engagement is Tained (UPDATED)

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2055 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

glad to hear things are starting to look up for you! i feel you made such a good choice by giving yourself a few days after to recover. 

wish you nothing but peace in the days to come!

Post # 4
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

I’m glad to hear that you’re waiting until after the dinner — definitely a good choice! You’ll be good with those days off — I wish I’d had a couple of days after mine, but it didn’t work out because I found out I was pregnant on Thursday and had my abortion that Saturday, so I didn’t have time to put in for time off.

Best of luck and enjoy your dinner!

Post # 4
1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - San Francisco, CA

Glad to hear things are going better for you. Therapy is always helpful if you have a history of depression (I speak from experience), even if you haven’t had to make major life decisions like engagement, weddings, and yes, terminations. And don’t be too worried about the procedure itself. It’s uncomfortable, yeah, but it’s not a HUGE deal, and it’ll be over before you know it. (I stayed home with a roommate who had a medical because she thought she’d need an actual caretaker, and we were both surprised at how much less of a situation it turned out to be. Finally: talk to the doctors at the center about getting on a new form of birth control. If this one isn’t working for you, maybe an IUD? They’re safe, EXTREMELY effective, and have no long-term impact on childbearing (compared to the ones our moms had in the 70s/80s.) My best friend has had one for several years and is having it taken out on her 1 year anniversary and she talked me into getting one, too (this summer).


All the hugs for you.

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