(Closed) My EX bought me a very expensive gift

posted 3 months ago in Engagement
Post # 91
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Bumble bee

OP are you still in love with your ex? What are your feelings towards him? I’m sensing that maybe this is more about that than the actual bird itself? Xo

Post # 92
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2022 - Studio City , CA

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@elody789:  Dear Gawd a parrot thread??

Post # 93
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Who asks for a 60-70k ring and gets a down payment from daddy and can’t afford a 6k bird.   Seems odd.

Post # 94
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2022 - Studio City , CA

Ok I tend to like to read an entire thread with comments before I offer my erroneous 2 cents.  That being said I don’t do Ex’s the last time I did I ended up in Divorce.  The answer to your dilemma is in the question itself.  You know this is wrong and feel guilty about it which is why you pushed this question out here so that we can co-sign the bullshittery of this situation.  Clearly no one is doing that.  I question to what extent you like the fact that he went broke buying you a bird. Which is beautiful by the way but was it neccessary to accept it? You certainly didn’t talk him out of it. Rather encouraged it. Now you are confused what to do??? Girl Please…you know what this is and what you wanted to happen.  Your Fiance or husband is right if he was stupid enough to buy it let him. But it was your responsibility to simply say No. Last time I checked No works. That said you may want to just close this thread because it ranks up there with Kohlgate (“I found my diamond at Kohls).  You will simply get more of the same and  as you can tell no one is going to co-sign your bullshit on this one. 

Post # 95
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Worker bee

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@ricli:  I’m dying at “kholgate” 🤣🤣🤣

Post # 96
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Bee Keeper

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@ricli:  Kohlgate has a sequel. It’s called Walmartgate.

Post # 97
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Bumble bee

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@ricli:  loving Kohlgate so much right now 😂 

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@sunburn:  omg what did I miss?? Walmartgate sounds incredible!

Post # 98
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Blushing bee

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@floridagirlblue:  Thank you! I really need to stay away from these kinds of threads until then 😆

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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

alright closing

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