Post # 16
There’s a LOT going on here. Sooooo much. The fact that he is giving you an ultimatum that is on HIS terms AND he is making it seem to you like he is giving you “mercy”. “I’ll drop everything to be with you if and only if you get a job.” That is so gross. Sooooo gross. He doesn’t care about you at all. He isn’t the one for you. You will find someone else, I promise. Now it’s time to RUN.
Post # 17
He dumped you, so if anyone needs to “prove” anything, it’s him.
Post # 18
snugglepuggle94 : “I need to show him proof of a job offer near him BEFORE he finds someone else to date, and if I do he will drop everything to be with me, including moving in together.”
Dafuq? Tell him to go eff himself. But first, build a bridge and get over himself.
LMAO at this guy.
Post # 19
Nope nope nope… He sounds like a total dick. If he actually loved you, he wouldn’t bring up the idea that he would want to date other women if you don’t get a job… What a manipulative jerk… Stay far away
Post # 20
Run for the hills and never look back
Post # 21
Contingencies on providing specific kinds of documentation belong at the DMV. Not relationships. Ever.
Post # 22
Did someone seriously vote yes? Please tell me they hit the wrong button by mistake! =/
Post # 23
Just no. Why do you need to prove yourself? It’s not easy getting a job in general, let alone when you’re starting out. If he is determining it on when you find a job he isn’t worth your time and you can’t reply him. He is looking for someone else, that should be enough for you to be running for the hills. If you genuinely want to be with you he just would.
Post # 24
No. He is disrespecting you with the ultimatum. What a prick. An ex is an ex for a reason bee. Find a real man.
Post # 25
he’s giving me a deal- I need to show him proof of a job offer near him BEFORE he finds someone else to date
<div style=”overflow: hidden; color: #000000; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;”>What the actual F?</div>
Big fat nope.
Post # 26
Lol @ at you finding a job before he meets someone else… What sort of “deal” is that?
Tell him to go blow himself.
Post # 27
It’s blind sided, not blind sighted lol 😉 it refers to something coming out of your blind side, like you have to check when driving.
And yeah, RUN. Nothing about this sounds good, least of which you thinking you can help him with his baggage. A healthy adult should deal with their baggage on their own. If they haven’t done that no one can help them
Post # 28
He sounds like a manipulative asswipe. And what happens if you get the proof but he’s ‘already found someone else to date’? Will he ditch her and ‘drop everything’ for you or will he say sozza you weren’t fast enough?
Either way he is a disgusting son of a bitch, tell him to go fuck himself.
Post # 29
- Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre
Stay away from him, you deserve someone better and without ultimatiums
Post # 30
Oh hell no. This guy is reall piece of work and with all his demands. Do not get back with him.