(Closed) My (ex) boyfriend is giving me a chance to get back together, what should i do?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I move in or not?
    Yes, follow your heart : (3 votes)
    2 %
    No, listen to your parents : (121 votes)
    98 %
  • Post # 46
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    309 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

    WHAT?! I stopped reading at “I need to show him proof of a job offer near him BEFORE he finds someone else to date, and if I do he will drop everything to be with me, including moving in together.”

    That is extremely controlling, manipulative, and unhealthy behavior.

    Post # 47
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    882 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I don’t think this is even a matter of listening to your parents. I see it as having self respect and not allowing someone to treat you like a piece of shit. 

    Post # 48
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    59 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    llevinso :  I’m dying ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

     

    But seriously op… In a word…. No. I had an emotionally abusive boyfriend about two years ago. He pulled crap like this all. The. time. Do NOT get back with this man. Ultimatums (especially involving finding a”job near me”) are very selfish and manipulative.

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