my ex-boyfriend left me for his ex-girlfriend. He now wants me back.

posted 3 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 16
2574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

This is way too much drama. If you take him back, your life will involve more of this drama. Is that what you really want in your life? I’m sure there is a very good reason why you have broken up with him multiple times. 

Post # 17
2473 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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@Abril15:  You don’t know what to believe?! How? He’s lied to you continuously, and he’s lying to you now. Move on. 

Post # 18
7551 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Just NO. Why are you even considering it? 

Spend some time just working on you for a while. 

Post # 19
145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Just send him this. 

Post # 20
107 posts
Blushing bee

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@Abril15:  I would just move on. Dont be anyone’s seconds. Ever. He chose her. That tells you’d everything you need to know about him. 

Post # 21
6963 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

6 years off and on seems like plenty long enough.

Post # 22
102 posts
Blushing bee

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Unless you want to go through the same thing again, don’t go there. Is he very young? Even so, this is enexcusable behaviour and what he did is basically infidelity IMO. Now it is the ex-girlfriend, but it could be someone else in a few months or years to come. You deserve better. Don’t beat yourself up for not being “the perfect partner”, nobody is perfect, but that is no excuse for your partner to act like this!

If the ex girlfriend had taken him back, you would not be writing this post because he wouldn’t be communicating with you. He has shown his true colours. How can you go from being unable to love someone despite apparently trying so hard, to then begging for them back? He wants back in because it’s convenience for him. You don’t need to do anything now apart from celebrate dodging this bullet!

Post # 23
1269 posts
Bumble bee

This guy sounds like a whole lotta drama and BS! I think it’s time to move on bee xoxox

Post # 24
384 posts
Helper bee

Hey Bee.. hope all the PP made a dent in your decision. If you value yourself then there shouldnt be a question, 2nd guess or anything.. dont blame the other girl “why would she lie and wrck havoc in his life?” Ohhhh you mean the way he did yours? You said it yourself, he strung you along made yoh think he loved you etc. no one who cares about someone would do it. 

Post # 25
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2020

No.  Move on.  

Post # 26
198 posts
Blushing bee


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