(Closed) My ex got married yesterday

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think that it’s normal to feel a little weird. My XH just got married yesterday and it’s weird. Although I do have to say that he got married to my FH XW. So that just makes all the more strange.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

As long as you don’t dwell on it for weeks, it’s totally normal.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i guess if i found out my ex got married, i would just feel happy for him (and sorry for the girl, lol).

i’m pretty sure my ex has seen my wedding pics b/c we share a lot of mutual fb friends and they were at my wedding including his former best friend and his wife.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@UmbrellaMoon: wow i thought i was weird i feel you on this.

my ex got married a few years ago and i was single at the time and it kinda devastated me ; (

he wed a few years after we split with the girl he dated after me and i mean right after me.

i had to remind myself that it didn’t matter Caz I’m the one who gave him is “promise ring” back. and then thank God i was blessed with my Fiance now we dated a few years actually he helped me thru the devastation of my ex getting married Caz Fiance and i were only friends at the time.

but he swept me off my feet ; ) we got engaged in february and ate set to marry in february 2014. life has a funny way of working it self out. don’t feel funny live your beautiful life ; )

i love my Fiance more then anyone ive ever been with hes my best friend and soulmate.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Handful:  Wow!  That is bizarre!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Handful: Wow, sounds like Marmalade Boy.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I remember finding out (via FB) that my XH got married (to the girl he cheated on me with). It was a very strange feeling. I wasn’t sad, angry or jealous. I just felt, wierd about the whole thing. Oh, the joy of social networking!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@UmbrellaMoon: If I were in the situation I would not send a card and just continue on as you are now. 

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Wow talk about weird timing. I just read this post and it got me thinking.. I’m still friends with my high school/college ex on facebook but I’ve hidden him from news feed so I honestly forget he even exists! Just now I went to look him up on facebook to see if maybe HE got married and I see that he just engaged week before last to a girl that has the same name as me lol. Now I also feel…weird. I am going to maintain my dignified silence but what is this weird feeling? Ick.. get away weird feeling!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@star_dust: I agree, no card. Just let things be and continue on with life.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

no card

 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

If my ex got married, I send a sympathy card to the bride.  That girl would need all the good luck she could get.  I would just say good riddance & go one with your life.  Also I would delete him off facebook.  Thats kinda klingy.

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