(Closed) My ex husband has asked me to remarry him……

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

“Taking your ex back is like buying your stuff from your own garage sale” -Unknown

Post # 32
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Helper bee

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Jobelle:  Little bit off track but can we have a picture of the ring? Teehee….

Post # 33
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Honey Beekeeper

The thread title implies that you have not given ex H an answer, yet your other thread states that you have already agreed to a wedding in August of this summer. With respect, I  think this may be  too fast, considering all that has happened. 

 

Post # 34
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It seems like this guy doesn’t take marriage very seriously.  But aside from my outsider judgement….just keep it in God’s hands. 

Post # 35
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

If you both are willing to work on the reasons why you divorced and willing to move on without any resentment, go for it. 

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

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Jobelle:  Should you do it?  Only you are qualified to answer that.  Would I do it?  No, certainly not.  If my husband decided his marriage to me meant so little that he would end it and marry another woman there is nothing he could do to regain my trust.

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

In this situation, it would make sense to spend at least two years dating before getting married again. That way you can be more certain that your husband isn’t just taking you for a ride.

I know you said that the ring isn’t a factor but you mentioned it in detail, which makes me think that perhaps you are focusing on the jewellery too much. Even if your ring was 10 carats, it wouldn’t erase the divorce or your husband’s remarriage.

 

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