(Closed) my ex is a pig

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow he does sound slimy!  I’m glad he at least realized he was in the wrong.  It sounds like it is a very good thing you are no longer with him. 

Post # 5
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow that is crazy! Sorry about the post replies weekends are sparse as far as posting is concerned.

I’m glad he feels wrongly about it, you or your son don’t deserve that stuff!

Post # 6
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2262 posts
Buzzing bee

Wow, I’m sorry no one responded earlier but he does sound like a creep. I’m glad he did come and apologize though, at least he sounds a little decent. But I agree he crossed a line last night.

Post # 7
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2463 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

oh my gosh, that’s horrible! how old is your son? aside from feeling violated i would be so worried about the example he’s setting for your son, because that is definitely not the way to treat any woman!

Post # 8
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215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wow, I’m sorry this happened to you! That is awful. Him being drunk and violent while he is around your son is unacceptable. The fact that he showed up this morning hopefully means he knew he was in the wrong and felt bad. However, I think I would tell him if it ever happens not only will you tell his girlfriend, but also the police. This isn’t some little incident that you should brush under the rug, especially if he gets violent when drunk.

Post # 10
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11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

That is disgusting. I would have been peed off myself & not let it go so easy if he hadn’t been your son’s dad. But I can understand with him being your son’s dad and all. I am so sorry you had to deal with him like that. 🙁 

Post # 11
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2750 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m glad you stood up for yourself (should’ve done that in front of your son).  Your little boy needs to know how NOT to turn out (and he will be taking cues from you and the men in your life)

Post # 12
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11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@mrsbruff2b: 100% Agreed!

So glad you stood up for your self as so many other women do not. 🙁

Post # 14
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7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

honestly, the fact that he showed up sober the next day and apologized means nothing to me.  I am sure he apologized like this several times after he was abusive to you when you were in a relationship with him?  His history of abuse and his alcoholism tells me that maybe you should consider not allowing your son to be alone with him since a) he can’t be trusted to not drink with your son around as he said he would  and b) he is a different person you can’t trust when he drinks, so i also would not trust him with your son.

i am sorry you had to go through that. and personally, i would tell his g-f what happened and not let him get a freebie – i dont know anything about her or what you think of her, but maybe this can be a step towards saving her from your ex?

Post # 16
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1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

EWW. I like the name of this post. Says it all. If there is some proof that he is a violent or pervy drunk can you get it put in your visitation agreement that he can’t drink when he has your son with him? I would just be worried about if plans changed, like if your car wouldn’t start or something and he ended up having to drive with DS in the car. I know maybe I’m stretching but alcoholics just give me the heebie jeebies! I feel like they’re an accident waiting to happen. And how sad that your poor son has to see women treated that way, especially his mom 🙁

Good for you for keeping your cool. That’s such a tough position because you don’t want to bash the man to your son, but you also want him to know that that’s not how men should act.

Ugh. I hope you had purel handy after that encounter…

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