(Closed) My ex is moving in with MY mom..

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@MrsUNClover:  Uh, no. You are completely valid. I think your mom needs to decide where her loyalities are.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsUNClover:  Yikes, I’d be furious.  I also wouldn’t waive child support.  I realize he may go back to jail, but really, your son deserves to be supported by both parents, and obviously a court at some point agreed.  That’s your business though, of course.

I think your mother is way out of line with this.  She should have asked you AND your son how you both felt about him staying with her.  The fact that she didn’t makes me wonder what her motivations are with this.  I’d tread very lightly, something smells *off* here.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

Your mom may be thinking of your son more than you in this case. Definitely talk to her. 

Post # 8
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474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Unless you want a ruined relationship with your mom, I would voice your displeasure over it.  My mom and ex became BFFs.  NOTHING and I mean NOTHING good has come out of it.  I eventually lost all respect for my mom, no longer speak with her, and I my ex is a lying, two faced, ball less man who is worthless as a father.  My mom sides with him.  Speaks volumes about who she is.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would be FURIOUS if my mother had my ex move in with her!!! She really needs to decide where her loyalties are, as right now, it does’t sound like they are with you. Telling you to ‘get your shit out of my house’ so ex can move his in? Ummmm. EFF YOU MOM!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Your mom is completely wrong.  She needs boundaries and probably some therapy.  Honestly it sounds like she’s probably mentally ill?  I cannot think of a person that would do this.

Post # 12
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7524 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow.  It sounds like a bad sitcom.  I would not be cool with this.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

wtf lol. wow

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MrsUNClover:  My mom and I were too.  I even lived a few houses down from her.  When I moved 1/2 hour away with my sons to live with my Fiance, she said I “took her sons away from her”… ummm.. last I checked they came out of my vagina and she is very jealous of my happiness and relationship.  Mind you she is treated like a queen and my parents have been married for 42 years.  Yeah.  She has issues, which is why she became BFFs with my ex, to make me mad.

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