(Closed) My Ex Just Asked For An Invite To Our Wedding

posted 5 years ago in Guests
Post # 16
3436 posts
Sugar bee

Why would anyone (ex or not), ask for an invite? Awkward.

Post # 17
3607 posts
Sugar bee

My ex-boyfriend and I haven’t talked in three or so years…ever since he sent me a bunch of drunk texts implying he was still in love with me despite us having been broken up for several years at that point *and* despite the fact that he was engaged to the woman who eventually became his wife. Hope he cleaned up his act after that, but I still feel bad for her. If he asked for an invitation to my wedding, my response would probably involve several four-letter words.

Post # 18
404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I would be weirdly flattered and then laugh hysterically. Im a nice person buuuut the idiots I dated were losers and I wouldn’t feel bad about ignoring them. 

Post # 19
1999 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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RRose10916:  gross lol. Tell him to pound sand! And people at work I barely know ask me allllll the time and say “ok imma make sure I take off” … The small close friends and family only doesn’t phase some people lol 

Post # 20
273 posts
Helper bee

DH’s ex (mother of his children) and her husband and her parents attended our wedding! I’m not going to lie, I was weirded out by it at first but it turned out well. She even gave us xmas ornaments made from our invitations

Post # 21
1882 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My mom’s ex boyfriend actually crashed her wedding to my dad and begged her to reconsider. My uncle had to be stopped from kicking his ass. 🙂 

Post # 23
4010 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m a teacher/coach and one of my former student’s mother asked if they were invited to the wedding. My students asked all the time as a joke if they were invited knowing very well that they wouldn’t be, but the mom was completely serious. She even was selling those ItWorks! body wrap things and offered to sell me some at a discount price to get me ready for the honeymoon. I was horrified on so many levels.

Post # 24
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I think asking for the invite is the problem, no matter who it is. My fiance’s ex will be invited. Mine is a question mark only because although we’ve stayed friends, I wasn’t invited to his and don’t want to make him or his wife uncomfortable. If I decide to invite him I’ll probably talk to him about it first to make sure it’s not going to put him in an uncomfortable spot. 

Post # 25
59 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Our little church

lol hahahhaha my ex is the worst and I would not want him to show up at my wedding. I live in a small town and try to avoid him as much as I can. Our wedding is big news in town and he knows not to show up.

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