Post # 1
my ex and I took a break like 3 months ago. Well within 3 weeks he was already talking to someone. I was furious. I said I was done right then. Well he called me a few days ago seeing if I still had any feelings towards him and wanted to get back with him. I told him I’d think about it and would consider it if he cut off all contact with his new fling. Well the sketchy part about it all is that he had to talk to me through his brothers phone so she wouldn’t find out he was talking to me. So I got really mad about that and told him I didn’t want to be with him, but now I kinda regret it and keeping thinking about him so much I just want to call him up and apologize. I’m so confused, lost, dumb. I wish he wouldn’t have even called because it just made things so much harder.
Any advice is welcome.
Post # 2
So he kept you on the back burner in case his new fling didnt work out. Is that the kind of relationship you want to be in? The kind where you are the back up? This guy is a jerk.
Post # 3
Nope. Just tell him nope, and don’t talk to him again.
Post # 4
run and run fast.
You deserve better than him bee.
Post # 5
If he is willing to do this to her, he will do it to you. And to be honest it sounds like he probably did do this to you but you don’t see it. He is the kind of person who sets up a new relationship emotionally before ending the one is is currently in. Don’t put yourself in the position to be 6 months down the line and in a relationship with him, only to have him calling someone else on his brother’s phone. Do you not see how sketchy that is?
Post # 7
He has cheated on me in the past. Although I don’t think any cheating went on during our engagement he definitely got tired of me and wanted something new. Now it seems like he doesn’t care about this girl enough or he wouldn’t be calling me, right?
Post # 8
Nope nope nope nope nope. He’s with her just in case you say no, then he still has her. Or he plans to be with both of you.
Post # 9
- Wedding: November 2019 - Canada
Nope! NOPE NOPE NOPE. What about this guy is appealing?! He hooks up with someone else right away after breaking up with you, then tries to get back with you while with this other women and is shady about contacting you? Trust me girl. my ex-husband did the exact same thing, he doesnt have good intentions. DO NOT GET BACK with him. You deserve better!
Post # 10
He’s cheating on her, or attempting to cheat, and he’s already cheated on you.
Aim higher. Value yourself more than this.
Post # 11
She’s not his ‘fling’, she’s his girlfriend. Don’t let this douchebag pit you two against each other because you both deserve better than a liar and a cheater.
Remember all the reasons why you broke up, then add this new low to the list.
Post # 12
Only one option: Tell the girlfriend.
You would want to know, I know I would too.
Post # 13
Right, he probably doesn’t care about her much. That doesn’t mean he does care about you, though. He cheats, breaks up with you out of boredom and tries to get you back while he has a girlfriend and you’re even considering taking him back?
This guy is bad news.
Post # 14
oh I did tell her! But they’re still talking.
Post # 15
I cant express to you how incredibly bad this is for you. Block him, and I guess his brother’s number and move on. He cheated on you, he’s cheating on her, and he WILL cheat on you again. Please do not go through life with a cheater. You’re self worth is low because of him, cut him off and learn to love yourself again. You are worth more than this. He WILL cheat on you again, he’s cheating now! My ex, who cheated, has contacted me saying he wants to get back together, while he’s still with the woman he cheated on me with, but to me, now hes cheating on her! He’s just a cheater and will always be a cheater. Please don’t be sad, be happy that you have the opportunity to find a man who is loyal and faithful to you, who would never cheat, who would never risk losing you. You deserve that. You’re sad because contact with him is hurtful, cut him off and you will feel better