(Closed) My Experiment Worked… MUAHAHAHA!!!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Possibly.  Have you read Mr. Bee’s plan?  It’s similar to what you’re doing, but I think the mindset is different- being independent and working on yourself for you, not to try to change him.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Men are so strange and funny!  =)  I’d make sure he knew my stance and that I *wanted* things to move forward, but didn’t want to just talk about it anymore, and not that I didn’t want to talk about it anymore cause I was’t interested.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

As soon as you act like you don’t need them then they’re allll up under you. Men are hilarious. After 3 years of back and forth with my ex I broke up with him. 3 weeks later after I stopped taking his calls, told him I would call back and didn’t, was preparing myself for a date….he proposed. A week later I had the ring on my finger. It’s sad that we have to use such tactics but hey whatever works! lol

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

LMAO, I don’t know what the test means, but I did the same thing you did. I was in the living room and told my SO I was going in to the bedroom to read. 20 secs later he came into the bedroom to ask me about a machine. A damn machine that I have no idea how to operate, trying to make small talk.. LMAO

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I did the same thing without reading the book and he’s been so crazy about getting my attention!

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

lol so glad to hear it is working for you 🙂 Although I don’t generally advocate games or “experiments” with loved ones I think it is just good advice generally to focus on yourself a little and try to find your own happiness. I think it’ll make you a happier person AND probably encourage him to get closer to you. Think about walking into a party… do you want to go hang out with the person who looks like they’re having a grand ol’ time without your help, or the person following you around and depending on you to have a good time. 🙂

Post # 9
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Newbee

No offense but you must have been harping on him every second of the day for this to have worked! I’m glad you found a way to easily change that, as you see it’s working in your favor.

Post # 10
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Worker bee

great job! gives me some hope that i can concentrate on myself and see some happy side effects.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

I soo can’t believe this is working!! Keep it up 🙂

Post # 12
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Helper bee

@Gwen von D:That’s basically what the book is say!  But I think if you say you don’t want to talk about it, he might think you changed your mind and he’s off the hook.  IF he brings it up, discuss it.  Otherwise, don’t mention it AT ALL!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

hehe, that is a funny and cute story.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

LOL, this is funny. I can’t say that stuff works for me though because I’m always off to bed early to read, so that’s nothing new. But I do agree that us girls need to make sure that we continue to do the things we love, and feel comfortable doing them ourselves. I’ve had the mini crisis of feeling like I lost my identity and all it took was a little me time and back to normal. Make sure you’re all doing that bees!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Cheeks11: “As soon as you act like you don’t need them then they’re allll up under you. Men are hilarious.”

Amen sister!

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