(Closed) My Family is Full of Jerks..

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
730 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Fuck ’em.  Let them sit at home, pantsless, and play Farmville.


You don’t need those losers to have a good time.

Post # 5
730 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@irishphoenix:  Your first post cracked me the freak up.


And i rarely *lol* by anything on this site.


I think you have a pretty good attitude about the whole thing, if they don’t wanna come to the wedding, no biggie.


Quality over quantity…..any day.

Post # 6
207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2004

@irishphoenix:  join the club!  I think all the men in my family have the crazy gene.  As soon as they hit a certain age,they go off the rails in a big way!  At my wedding, my one brother and his wife and their kids , plus partners, ended up not coming after making a big, huge fuss about the fact that their kids SHOULD be able to come WITH partners…. Nevermind that they were still at school and NONE of them in any tyoe of relationship… So they fought for this to be allowed… And just ended up not coming… Leaving an empty table for ten people at my wedding which could have been used for friends!!!  Can’t choose family…. Also can’t control them.  


Post # 7
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@irishphoenix:  lol oh honey, you know its more of a blessing that they’re declining, right?! Take their invites and send them RIGHT to your friends! You don’t need drama like that in your life or anywhere near your wedding – even if they are family.



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@JaneyDcat:  Pahaha! +1000

Post # 10
4097 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Lol at all of the responses! Probably would be fun if they all showed up so you could witness the shenanigans though.


Post # 11
1125 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@JaneyDcat:  +100000000000 Fuck ’em is right.

Post # 12
1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@irishphoenix:  As soon as I read the subject line of this post I wanted to yell “HEY! Mine, too!” Seriously, don’t sweat it. You’re probably better off with them not coming. I wish most of my dad’s family would decline!

Post # 13
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

sounds like it’s going to save you a lot of money and  stress!

Post # 15
283 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@irishphoenix:  Um, I would absolutely send them that note. Better yet, send it on facebook and use it to inform them you are defriending them for not immediately congratulating you the day of.


As PPs said, fuck ’em. Be happy they aren’t there to stir up drama on your day.

Post # 16
34 posts
  • Wedding: December 2013

So sorry. I understand. My paternal side of the family is very into themselves and there’s tons of favortism issues on that side of the family. I’ve always been treated like an outsider, even though i am family. My cousins all had siblings, and i was an only child. My 2 aunts and all their kids would do things together that i was never included in. But then again my dad was never extremely close to his sisters, whereas his sisters are close to one another so on some level it does make sense. We’re doing an intimiate wedding with 15 members of our immediate family. It does make me sad though that i don’t have more family. Of those 15 guests we’re inviting to our wedding, only 3 are my family (my mom, my dad and his wife).

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