- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
My and my dh have live together for 15 yrs, we had a court wedding on 2008, no party, we went to court(us) and afterall went home . Our family know that we always wanted to have a ‘real” wedding, they were offended that they were not invited to the court “wedding”. We are planning a vow renewal/wedding for 2014, we are paying for everything ourselves, we are poor, so we’re trying to do everything on a budget. My father offered to help us (gift) with some money, but i dont think its right, he works to hard for his money, he is not in the best financial situation on this word, i know he has savings but i will feel like taking advantage of him if i take the money, my father helped two of my oldest siblings with money for their wedding, i am number five out of six children. How do i kindly tell him No without hurting his feelings, he do not want to take no for an answer…..