(Closed) My female friends keep saying my butt is small

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Post pictures and a poll, it’s the only way you’ll get an honest opinion!

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

hmmmm

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@anon00:  You can delete a picture without deleting a post, just a heads up

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Well, here goes nothing –

 

So you say that no guy has ever said your butt looks small. That is because most guys are either trying to compliment you (in hopes you’ll befriend them/sleep with them) or directly trying to make you sleep with them. A guy who says your butt looks small is just out to hurt your feelings or has zero interest in bedding you or something, or could be telling the truth.

Women, on the other hand, are not trying to sleep with you (mostly?) so I would tend to put more weight on what they say. You could maybe chalk up a few of those less positive remarks to jealousy or envy or whatever, but if you remember that thread a few weeks ago, just because a woman criticizes another woman does NOT mean she is jealous. In fact, most of the time I’d say she is not.

 

So, believe what you will. If your Fiance is happy, don’t worry about what women say. They are not having sex with you.

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

pics

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

You have a great butt!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

WOW. Well damn, that’s quite an ass! Haha. It looks very nice btw, and I can tell you spend a lot of time scultping. It could be that because you’re smaller all around, they perceive your butt as being smaller than theirs, when, if you adjust for overall body size, yours is more shapely. I really wouldn’t think too much about it, maybe they all think small butt=good, so they assume they’re paying you a compliment?

 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

@anon00:  It’s all about proportions and perspective. A medium-sized bum will look bigger on a smaller person than on a larger person (or on someone who carries the weight up top). Also, if your friends have proportionally big butts, then maybe they think yours is small in comparison to your proportions and to theirs.

Or…they might have the worst depth/proportion perception ever. 🙂

I think you have a great bum, btw (slightly rounded and proportional…LOL I sound like a perv). Jsyk, all of my friends/fam talk about my HUGE bum because relative to most of them, my bum is massive. It looks great in most clothing, so I don’t take offense.

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