(Closed) My FH hates the other love of my life…

posted 8 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

why does your Fiance hate him?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

He’s just going to have to learn to deal with him. Your dog is probably a lot like a child to you, and rightfully, you aren’t going to give him up.

I can kind of relate to this, except I’m the one that doesn’t really like my husband’s animals…his dog is huge and hyper and his cat has a SERIOUS attitude problem (unlike my darling kitty), but I deal because they are an extension of him.

Talk to you FH about the way he treats him. Does he make rude comments about him to you? If so, tell him how much that bothers you. You get the point, he doesn’t like your dog.. tell him to just be quiet about it unless he has something nice to say about him!

Post # 5
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Busy bee

First I’d say if your fh made you loose the dog maybe he’s not that amazing. But second I’d say who is more important to you…hopefully your fh

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Do you all live together? I only ask because before Fiance moved back in with me, he wasn’t a big fan of my dog. He didn’t hate him, but he didn’t love him either, that’s for sure! Well now, he loves that dog so much it’s not even funny! Maybe he just needs to be around your dog more for him to come around?

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

He’s “rarely nice to him”? What do you mean? Ahh! I’m not an animal person… but my Fiance is. When we first started dating he had a little yorkie & while I didn’t let her lick my face I didn’t treat her poorly either!

Seriously, he’s going to need to just get along with the dog! You can’t get rid of your pet just because your FI doesn’t like him.  That’s not fair at all.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

my fi came with a dog. he’s a crazy dog, and luckily i happened to fall in love with him. but because he’s so crazy, we’ve had a lot of conversations about him and what would have happened if his girlfriend didn’t like him. the dog comes first, but of course that’s before he would be close to the girl. i really don’t have any advice, but i would talk to him about why he doesn’t like your pup, see if there’s anything you can do on your end.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh ok, I think you will be just fine! As many times as Fiance and my dog “socialized”, that didn’t do a thing. Just wait ’til you guys move in together – I swear he will come around!

When Fiance started spending the night w/ me in my apt., my dog always slept with me and Fiance was just totally grossed out about having the dog on the bed. We even got into it one night and I was crying – a whole big mess. Well NOW – Fiance is the one calling the dogs (we have another now) up into the bed, putting them under the covers with him to snuggle… crazy!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Oh thats good to hear! I was thinking the worst… *phewf*

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Did you mean to have a pic with that last post? If so, it’s not showing up!

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