(Closed) My FH hates the other love of my life…

posted 10 years ago in Pets
Post # 32
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

OMG!*dies from cuteness*

I don’t know how anyone could resist such a cutie dachsund! I hope your Fiance grows to love him as much as you do! At least he lets him sit in his lap; that’s a good sign.

Post # 33
2006 posts
Buzzing bee

My dog was also a gift from my ex. I think my dog my dog likes the Fiance more than me now, I often find them cuddling on the couch or in bed togetherTongue out

Don’t worry,he’ll come around!

Post # 34
3979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

haha isn’t it ironic that as soon as you posted about your Fiance not liking your dog you found the 2 of them snuggled on the couch?

Too cute 🙂

Post # 35
715 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I hate my hubby’s (now mine) dog too. But I deal. Sometimes I don’t hate him so much – but he is sleeping then.

Post # 36
1317 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


Post # 37
16 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

when i met my Fiance he was a total cat person as he had never had a dog or really been around them……….he wasnt so crazy about them though.  they started to grow on him and not too long ago i asked his what he would do if something happened to me……would he keep my girls or would he give them to my parents……his response and I quote him on this, “I think I would have to keep them……they grow on you and when they aren’t around you kinda miss them…..plus who would keep him warm in the winter!!”  Thats love……of course who couldnt love them….. [attachment=536496,70456]

Post # 38
1119 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Cute pictures! 🙂

I’m not a dog person, but if my husband had had a dog when we first met, I’m sure it would have grown on me over time.

Post # 39
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

My fiance had to learn to love my cat.  He’s also slightly allergic and has to take Claritin whenever he’s here.  My cat is my baby, though, and I’ve had him before I met my fiance.

I hate dogs, but if he had had a dog, I would have gotten over it.  I wouldn’t ever want to make someone give up a pet.

Post # 40
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

OMG Chuck is a clone of my baby!!! Isabella tan is the color right? Don’t you worry he will work his cuteness and win ur Fiance over…. How can u not love a weenie dog??  They are the cutest! Here’s a pic of my two babies…She has to wear a shirt when she goes to the beach so she doesn’t get sunburn, that type of doxie’s hair is so short and sleek it’s like they don’t have any…feels like skin…Ppl always ask me if i shaved her!! LOL sorry i got excited that i found her twin…


Post # 41
368 posts
Helper bee

Just give it some time. Fiance hated dogs, and we eventually got a dog together – he’s grown on him. Your Fiance will come around, I promise!

Post # 42
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I feel ya! My Fiance dosen’t like animals in general! He just grew up with animals more as guard dogs than pets. Well I have a little Chihuahua mix. And as first he hated her. She’s also a indoor dog and we also have two other indor dogs besides her. She’s like my little Angel. I cry when she’s sick because I worry about her. But my Fiance has come a long way from first no letting her in our room at all to actually playing with her and washing her. Which is a big step for him since one of the reason he dosen’t like animals is becuase he dosen’t like to clean up after them! Just give it time and he’ll come around. I don’t think the reason he dislikes the dog is practical its not the dogs fault your ex bought him for you. goodluck!


Post # 43
5282 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Aww I love to see that he’s coming around! I mean who could resist puppy eyes & a wagging tail! You’ll see they will become best friends before you know it!

@Sxelexe: LOVE that pic your your bulldogs, they are one of my favorite breeds!

Post # 44
694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Aw! My Fi “hates” cats. Every time I bring up the fact that when we’re settled, I’m getting 2, he goes crazy. However, it’s just an act. I know he’ll love them or at least put up with them. He loves his parents’ dog and always complained about her, but he misses her and isn’t afraid to say it. It’s just frustrating when they say mean things about pets! 🙂

Post # 45
617 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I had the same problem. Manfriend loves dogs, he just didn’t love my dog. It was heartbreaking in the beginning. We finally came to realize that on some level he was jealous of her which may sound silly because he’s a man and she’s a dog, but she’s my life. It all started to make sense of it and he started to come around. Now we take her everywhere with us. She goes on the boat and in the car. He even takes her in the truck with him when I’m not home. She sleeps in bed with us and one night he said “Goodnight, Gracie. I love you” I asked him to repeat what he said… he said “nothing, I didn’t say anything” lol. It was so funny. He also referred to himself as Dada one time when talking to her. It just takes a little time. I think the love I have for the two of them is a different kind of love for each, buit I can see where there may have been jealousy. Anyway, I’ll leave you with a picture from Allegany State Park this summer.

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