- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
and I don’t care.
So one of Fi’s friends girlfriends who I like and is a very nice person, randomly messaged me on Sunday to ask how the wedding was going, how I was doing, it was a little odd, just because we don’t talk on Fb all that much, although when I go to Fi’s I have texted her and she invites me out sometimes.
Basically after chit chatting for a bit this is what she said,
so I went out to dinner the other night, and I saw your Fi
Me: Cool He told me was going out to eat, I love that place, the food is awesome.
Her: oh well, he didn’t see me, I saw him with some woman, I was going to say Hi but I didn’t want to interrupt
I was getting my pizza out of the oven so I didn’t respond right away, and was gone for like 10 minutes
Her: Look just wanted to you to know. Girl code and if my boyfriend was out having dinner with someone I hope you would do the same.
Her: I didn’t see him actually do anything, but you might want to know or find out what is going on.
Her: Can you say something?
Her: Are you ok?
Her: Please don’t shoot the messenger.I was just being a friend.
Me: Hey sorry, was grabbing a pizza, I’m not mad, thanks for telling me but I know where Fi was and whom he was with, so nothing to worry about,
Her: Well Ok then
Her: I will talk to you later I guess.
Anyways I just shrugged it off, and didn’t even mention it to Fi. Then on Wednesday she texted me to ask if I was ok. I was working late and didn’t check my phone until later. I’m home today, so I had time to check my Fb for the first time this week, and she sent me like two messages. I told her I was fine, and it’s a non issue. I feel weird about this situation.
I’m not mad at her, but she is starting to get really annoying! I just think she making a lot of assumptions because she saw Fi eating dinner with a female friend. I don’t get what the big deal is. I think it’s perfectly fine for him to have dinner without me even if it is with a female friend.
Does your guy have issues with you eating dinner with a male friend? Do you have issues with your Fi/Hubby eating dinner with another woman? I don’t think just because we are engaged that he can’t go out to eat with a friend, even if she is female.