(Closed) My FI has un-invited his BF

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

Respect your FI’s decision and stay out of it. This EX Boyfriend or Best Friend isn’t a Boyfriend or Best Friend at all if he has to see who else is invited then complain when X or Y isn’t invited. A wedding is a time to celebrate the BRIDE AND GROOM, not to have a freaking reunion with all your friends. Be glad you don’t have to pay for him to attend with that attitude.

Post # 4
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Best bet is to stay out of it.

Post # 5
107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Stay out of it. Let the boys work it out on their own terms, if they choose to do so.

Post # 6
927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@bluebella13:  When did this all go down? I would respect your FI’s decision, give him some time to think it over…at least a week or two before you say anything. If they haven’t resolved it themselves then *gently* encourage your Fiance to resolve things. If he still doesn’t want to then let it go. That really sucks, but it’s his friend, so it’s best for you to support whatever your Fiance decides. Sorry you’re going through this : (

Post # 8
3141 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Respect his decision as it is his choice. I went through something similar and unfortunately ended my friendship with two of my closest friends due to wedding related issues. I made this decision as I only want people in my life who will support me and my marriage. They need to be reliable and respectful, providing support through my stressful situations not creating additional stress. I am sad and sometimes wonder if it would have been different If only … But our true supporters stood strong and saved the day And surprised us with their commitment to making our dreams come true. 

Post # 9
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

i would stay out of it. guys fights are different. who knows the could resolve it before the wedding, or after. but guys don’t have arguements with their BFs like girls do. I wouldn’t want to get involved and have your Fiance mad at you, for getting in his bussiness. 

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