(Closed) My FI is ashamed of my ring and im starting to despise it…*Small Diamond*

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

The only thing I would be thinking if I were looking at your ring is ‘ooooooh pretty’.

It is gorgeous, unique, and certainly packs a punch. I would not have put this in the small stone category.

Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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keybaby913:  don’t hide your hand! There is no shame in a symbol of love. None! you say your Fiance wants to upgrade, how do you feel about it? 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Manhattan, NY

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keybaby913:  That’s a beautiful ring, in my opinion! Nothing to be ashamed of there 🙂 Not every style of ring will be everyone’s cup of tea – that’s not your problem! 

Post # 5
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Newbee

Personally, I think it is beautiful. The design of it is SO unique! I love rings that focus on intricate detail as opposed to a whopping stone. I have never seen a ring like it and it really fits your finger beautifully!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2000

I think it is really pretty and unique at the same time.  I know it’s easier said than done, but who cares what others think.  If you love it, then that is all that matter.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

You can never make everyone happy. If you go bigger people will probably complain that it’s “too much” or “gaudy”.

Screw ’em.

Wear what you love!

Post # 8
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Busy bee

its insanely beautiful and unique. Do not ever hide that thing, its amazing. It suits your hand perfectly, talk to your fiance, let her know that the ring is everything you want it to be and she needn’t be ashamed of it. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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keybaby913:  Your ring is stunning! I’d be showing that off left and right! 😉

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

That is so cool!  I’ve never seen a ring like that, and I think that is a really big factor in what makes it so neat.  Who cares what other people think?  They don’t have to wear it.  It is beautiful, it suits your hand, F the haters. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

It’s pretty and it’s hardly small.  I don’t get it though… your fiancee is female as well, yes?  Why doesn’t she have a ring she wants and you have the one you want?  I can see a male fiance wanting a share in his future wife’s diamond, but she can have her own!  Anyway don’t hate on it – it’s pretty, it’s unique, it’s far more interesting to look at than the same run of the mill ring that ‘everyone else’ has.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

There’s no need whatsoever to be “ashamed” of that gorgeous ring that you’re rocking. It doesn’t matter what other people think or feel about your ring because it’s a symbol of the love between you and your fiance. 

I have a small diamond solitaire engagement ring that I’ve cried over. and was very self conscious about. I didn’t pick it but it’s was my hubby worked so hard to surprise me with. Years later after a wedding, buying a house, and having a baby I look back thinking about how silly I was over a ring. 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I love your ring! 

I think sometimes people assume that everyone will be as obsessed about the ring as they are but outside of these forums, I don’t find many people think too much about rings. Could it just be that less people went on about how stunning it is than you guys were anticipating so you’ve interpreted that as everyone dislikes the ring? I can’t see how anyone wouldn’t think this is beautiful and if you love it (and what it symbolises) then that’s the most important thing!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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keybaby913:  that ring is simply gorgeous, very unique design.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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keybaby913:  I read the whole story before I looked at the picture and your ring literally made me say “Woah” out loud to myself because of how stunning it is. IMO it is GORGEOUS and I would have said looks quite large.

That being said, I also got ‘blinded by diamonds’ when I went to pick out my pink sapphire ering but came to my senses the next day and went back to change it to what I originally wanted. Those store lights are good! 😉 If you REALLY want something different and won’t be able to be happy with your current ring then go for what you want and get a redesign. Good luck and I hope you’ll let us know what you decide!

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