(Closed) My FI is becoming a bridezilla

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yes, it is his wedding too, but he is acting like its only his! I would sit down with him and tell him exactly how you feel, that you don’t have any say in this day, which is supposed to be both of yours. And having nuts on the cake when there is someone with an allergy is HIGHLY dangerous, those nuts could touch other parts and she could still have a reaction! He needs to understand that you get a say in your wedding. You could also tell him that unless he starts paying, or his parents do, that you can’t do everyting he wants.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I almost don’t know what to say! Its usutally the bride battling some form of female influence in her life for these decisons.

I guess its awesome he cares, but he will have to come to some terms of reality like as in money issues and food allergies.

How old is your Fiance ( if you dont mind sharing) and is this his first wedding?

Post # 5
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529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

umm yes I think you have a right to be annoyed, its your wedding too and should about compromise not just what he wants, especially if he does not want to help out!

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You two have some serious talking to do. Is he usually like this with anything else? Do you think that this will go away after wedding? Because if it doesn’t, then you need to do some serious thinking because this will cause a lot of issues with your marriage. I hope everything works out for you and you are able to make some decisions in your wedding because after all it is your wedding too.

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