- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My fiance and i have been together for over 3 yrs so weve had this discussion many time and have been back and forth as to how to handle it. I have 90k and only a bachelors degree to show for it. At first he wanted separate accounts so he wwouldnt have to be paying for my school. But we later discussed that its better to just go all joint since when we get married we are both taking on each others problems and he has all these expensive toys he wants so i got him to see that we r kinda even. He is not exactly thrilled but i told him thatt im contributiing and i have a job to pay for it so he agreed. Im sure your fiance will come aroound as well. And with a nursing job paying that off will be a lot easier then it is for me.