(Closed) My FI kept a deep, dark secret from me…

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

not nerdy but he def didnt tell me. in a previous life my Fiance…opps, HUBBY (gotta get use to that!) was a photographer for ummm, gentlemens magazines and while tearing apart the bookshelves to make room for my stuff i discovered dozens of volumes of pictures of naked ladies or ladies wearing very very little. 

these have been sent to the garage for storage 🙂


Post # 4
1156 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York

lol i thought this was going to be a shocking post.  no secret habits for mr. bee!  my big secret was my massive debt… but i told mr. bee about that very early on in our relationship and he didn’t run away!  

Post # 5
7052 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Wow.  I can’t wait to find out what T is secretly doing/done.  I did find out about what happened in the basement parties at the KA house though.  I also know their secret handshake! (and he knows mine too!)

Post # 6
2143 posts
Buzzing bee

No idea if hubby is hiding anything from me, but he does own a shoebox of comic books that he has yelled at me for touching once lol He reads them on occasion. Your discovery made me giggle though :p

Post # 7
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My Fiance is a huge Trekkie!!!  I found this secret out early on in our relationship but it’s something he rather I not share with friends.  Ooops!

Hahaha, the secret was discovered while he was showing off a closet full of old hockey jerseys.  He didn’t realize his costume from when he was 10 was hanging in the same closet. 

Post # 8
29 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

not so secret, but my fiance does collect transformers


Post # 9
1103 posts
Bumble bee

I love to dance. FH doesn’t. Who knew I’d end up with a non-dancer? Anyway, we’d been together a few years, and I was well aware of his no dancing policy when it emerged…he’d actually taken tap dancing lessons as a kid! His dad wanted him to be Fred Astaire or something. I really want him to take lessons for the wedding – maybe those tap lessons will all come flooding back?

Post # 10
952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Fiance and are both pretty nerdy. I don’t make fun of him for being a Trekkie, he doesn’t make fun of me for having gone to Lord of the Rings conventions. 🙂

Post # 11
299 posts
Helper bee

SO has every D&D book that ever came out, it’s awful, lol- he collects comics too, but he keeps them in his computer room at the house, so as long as they aren’t lying around, I don’t care- I <3 nerds, hehe. I used to build pcs, so I was one at one point too

Post # 12
2207 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

LOL I love this post!  Mine collected baseball cards (uhm..er…and he MAY or MAY NOT have collected Magic cards at one point…) but I knew about that early on.  I swear we’re not weirdos who sit around and play Magic cards

Do you guys remember POGS?!?!  One of my friends fiancees collected those…She found them and was like WTF are THESE?!

Post # 13
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Look at those transformers!!

Mine has a ton of Star Wars books. I don’t think it’s a big deal, but I consider his secret because we’d been together something like 6 or 8 months when he got all embarrased about it and showed me the secret bookcase full of them in the closet!

Post # 14
275 posts
Helper bee

@KellyV – I think my fiance WISHES he still had his pog collection, he has referenced it a number of times, including this past weekend when I was punching out 2" circles and he said ‘OOH what are those? Wedding pogs??’…..um, not quite hun-

Post # 15
3331 posts
Sugar bee

These are funny!  My husband has a baseball card collection from his childhood.  When his parents were remodeling their basement, they said they were going to drop off the baseball cards at our place for storage.  I assumed it would be maybe a couple of shoe boxes worth–how many baseball cards does one boy need?  Boy, was I wrong.  They brought 3 HUGE Rubbermaid tubs, you know the size that you’d put an artificial Christmas tree in!  I was horrified.  He keeps saying he needs to go through them and decide what he’s keeping/selling/giving away.   Right now, they’re taking up ALL the room in our storage unit.  Grr.

Post # 16
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

That’s actually pretty cool and kind of sweet that he saved them, but maybe I’m weird… lol. Your son will be like … LOL.

Those transformers … OMG. It reminds me of 40 Year Old Virgin … didn’t he collect action figures. Haha.

Um, I have nothing surprising to say about Fiance.   I on the other hand have like boxes and boxes of Barbie dolls that my mom may or may not have anymore. Lol. I had like every single Barbie, playhouse, and car! My little sister than played with them … so who knows where they are now.

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