(Closed) My FI wants to throw me a bachelorette and bridal shower

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@tranquility: ummmm… have him call up your friend and take the blame for you asking her to step down and then let her do it???  

Other than that, for the sake of peace, let him plan.  And use it for later 😉  (I know, I know, I’m evil).

Seriously, though, at least he’s admitting he’s the reason for your friend being “fired” (sorta) and is taking responsibility for it.  It sounds like it’s his way of getting rid of the guilt.  

Post # 5
2547 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My opinion?

I think that you are overreacting to this. What’s done is done, in regards to your friend, so I would let that go.

Your fiance wants you to indulge in the whole wedding related process, and that is a great thing. In fact, it is a friggen wonderful and sweet thing that he is doing. I would just let it go, enjoy the events, and let it be. You will have a great time, regardless who plans it, and you most likely won’t regret it.

Post # 6
5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

It sounds like he is trying to make a bad situation better – and while I can see your point about how this whole situation appears weird to others; keep in mind that now days so many things are “unconventional” so I say, who cares if he’s planning?  

Post # 7
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@tranquility: (((((HUGS)))))  and look at the bright side: not many guys would do this!!!  You can brag about it later!! 😀

Post # 8
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think what he is doing is awfully sweet. Unconventional? Yes, but so many traditions have changed over the years. I would also brag about it!

I’m sorry about your friend and your regret in that area, however.

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