(Closed) My fiance can be such an ASSHOLE :(

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Can your FI/Hubby/SO be an ass and he doesnt even realize it ?
    YES! : (32 votes)
    31 %
    No Way! : (29 votes)
    28 %
    Sometimes, but then he apoligizes because he feels bad : (43 votes)
    41 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    350 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think everyone does, at least if they are being honest.  No two people are every going to completely agree on everything or have their moods in sync at all times.  I have this problem at times with not just with my fiance but with friends, relative, coworkers…etc. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    7385 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Of course, and so can I if I’m honest. Thankfully we eventually come to our senses.  Everyone has moments, as long is its not a constant issue.

    Post # 5
    Member
    491 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think this poll should be synonymous with “Is your fiance a man?”

    In my case … yes.  Every man has the asshole gene, like every woman can be a bitch.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1553 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    @CrystalBlackheart:  What she said.

    My husband has his moments.  But I can deal because they are few and far between and he’s always sorry afterwards.  Besides, I’m not perfect either…

    Post # 7
    Member
    862 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I voted sometimes only because of the wording of the question.  Can he be an ass and not realize it?  I call him out on it every time and vice versa.  lol

    Post # 8
    Member
    10 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I know fiancé can be like that, but he’s mainly the opposite.  He’s really immature and thinks that it’s kind of a joke.  He wants to have a “Star Wars” themed wedding, light saber fight and all.  I wish he would show a little more concern.  Just hold you head high and everything will work out. Good luck!

    Post # 9
    Member
    1359 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    in all honesty, he can definitely be an ass AND realize it and think it’s totally fine, other times he’s an ass and does NOT realize it and thinks whatever he’s arguing makes perfect sense, and then other times he’s an ass and does NOT realize it and feels bad.

    @CrystalBlackheart: completely agree with this.

    Post # 10
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    My husband is never really an asshole to be honest. However, I can be 🙂

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