Unfortunately I totally believe this post is real… here’s why:
And I know I will get judged for this but it’s worth it if it prevents you from making a huge mistake.
I was that receptionist 7 years ago. I had sex with a guy from work 6x over the course of 2 years. My excuse (not that there can be an excuse) is that I was in love with him and convinced myself that he wouldn’t be having sex with me if he didn’t have any feelings for me. But anyway, that’s irrelevant, what’s relevant is the second reason which was that I thought ”If he doesn’t have any respect for his fiancee why should I have any respect for her?”
The similarities with your story are huge.. and he also wanted me to have sex with him in the toilets at a party where she was present, but that was more than I could manage.
Fast forward 2 years, I discovered he’d been having unprotected sex with another woman besides me.. and I ”woke up”. I cut contact with him and got myself checked for every STD under the sun.
Fast forward 7 years. He’s not in my social circles but he’s friends with some people who are, so I get to hear about him from time to time. He’s married, he has 2 kids with his wife, and he has cheated on her with at least 5 women that I know of.
Most recently, one girl came to work crying apparently and handed in her notice that very day because of him (they had had sex after the company party). I don’t work with him anymore if that wasn’t obvious already.
Anyway, everyone pities his wife, everyone knows what he’s like and it will never change. If he’s anything like your guy he comes across as responsible, kind, helpful, sensible… etc. Maybe that’s why your parents are telling you to stay with him… but PLEASE DON’T!!
1) He will NEVER CHANGE
2) He is putting your health at risk with his actions.. you could DIE of AIDS or become infertile from chlamydia.
3). You will be pitied and disrespected by everyone around you.
4). Again, he WILL NEVER CHANGE.
Please leave him and find someone who deserves you.