(Closed) My fiancé cheated on me with escorts. Crushed and heartbroken.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 107
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Brokenheartedbee1234 :  have you updated us at all? Are you still together? Very similar situation right here… 

Post # 108
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Brokenheartedbee1234 :  I’m sorry this has to happen to you. Personally I won’t and will never be able to deal with a cheating scum. I hate the thought of thinking he was inside another women; twice. It’s hard to believe he said he feels sorry and really broken down when he was having a hard on and was banging two girls while engaged with you. It really makes me sick to know that a man could do this to the person he claims he loves most. It looks like he loves himself more than he loves you. When he said he needs to get it out of his system, he could have done it but it has to be when he’s single, not when he’s with someone that he is about to get married to. I just think he is a f**ked up and totally bullcrapping his way out of trouble. If I were you, I would leave. People will ask questions why, let them know he was cheating and it’s not your responsibility to make excuses for him. But if you can’t imagine life without him, know that he had imagined life without you when he was engaging in those sex acts with the escort girls. He kissed them and banged them whilst you had no idea and was planning the wedding and came up with money to pay for wedding and other etc. I can’t live with a person like that, he sounds really selfish. And if you forgave him, be sure he’ll do it again later on in the relationship when things in the bedroom gets boring or sexual activity becomes lesser than normal, he’ll seek sex somewhere else and when he get caught, he’ll play you and claim it was your fault. 

Post # 109
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

kellykep :  I’m so so sorry 🙁 I can’t imagine what you must be feeling right now.

Post # 110
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

Brokenheartedbee1234 :  I know this post is 2 years ago, im really curious what your decision was, I think most opinion here said to leave. either way i wont judge its your decision.

Post # 111
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wonder how she’s doing 2 years later.

Post # 112
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I really so badly want to know what she is doing now. Because I want to see that there is a light at the end if I do stay. 

Post # 113
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

kellykep :  If you would like some advice or just to speak to someone about what’s happening with you, you should probably start your own thread. You have more chance of having someone who has been through a similar situation be able to help you.

Post # 114
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

kellykep :  I second the advice to start your own thread. The Bees here are great with advice and maybe other people have been through this situation and can help too! This thread is really old so it is doubtful the OP is ever coming back. 

Post # 115
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Wannabee

 I am wondering if you still visit this site, if you have stayed with him, any updates?

Post # 116
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

There’s a good book on how to prevent and recover from an affair; “his needs, her needs”. But hearing “just to get it out of my system” is NOT a good sign, if you’re fulfilling his sexual needs and he still looks elsewere for sex that’s just a sign it will definitely continue later. I’m sorry but I would not trust him anymore.

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