My fiance cheated on me…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

There’s nothing “wrong with you” that made him cheat. He’s an asshole, that’s why he cheated. *hugs*

Post # 4
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

*Hugs* I am so sorry 🙁

I can tell that you are really in so much pain right now. You do not deserve that. You did NOTHING wrong here. He is fully in the wrong and never thing otherwise.

I am really so sorry that you are going through this.

Do you have any family you can stay with for a while to help you out?

Do not feel ashamed about your feelings.

We are here for you

 

Post # 5
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453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

you didn’t do anything. Let it go. if he’s being that much of an a**, he’s not worth having you. He obviously doesn’t care enough about the relationship to even come clean and talk to you about it.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be.

TONS AND TONS OF HUGS!!!

Post # 6
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5390 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sorry. Don’t beat yourself up. He is a jerk and he doesn’t deserve you. You deserve better than him.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

HE IS A PIECE OF SHIT.  NOT YOU.  I am so, so, so sorry, but SO thankful you did not end up marrying that scumbag.  Don’t even give him the time of day, I guarantee he’ll come sniffing back around and when he does, tell him to kiss your beautiful ass.

BIG HUGS TO YOU.

Post # 8
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That is awful. I am so sorry you have to go through this!

No woman deserves to be treated that way. Thank goodness this came out before the two of you were married. What a douche bag.

Post # 9
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1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

First, I’m really sorry you are going through this.  Second, stop. Breathe.  It is incredibly difficult for you right now but it will get better.  It gets better.  Know that his actions are not your fault and not a result of anything you did or are lacking.  He made those choices not you.  I know it’s hard to imagine now but you will be OK someday. Don’t beat yourself up.

Post # 10
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63 posts
Worker bee

What do you mean he won’t talk to YOU? He won’t reply to you? Thats messed up.  It should be the other way around.

Did you guys live together?  Do you have a safe place to be right now?

Post # 11
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m so sorry.  This is just awful!  You totally don’t deserve this and he doesn’t deserve you!  He’s the one who’s wrong, not you.  You did nothing wrong at all! 

Just be glad you found out now, then later.  It will take alot of time, but you will heal. 

Post # 11
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

PLEASE don’t blame yourself!  He sounds like a douche, plain and simple, and you definitely deserve better! I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this.  Frown

Post # 12
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m so sorry.  This is just awful!  You totally don’t deserve this and he doesn’t deserve you!  He’s the one who’s wrong, not you.  You did nothing wrong at all! 

Just be glad you found out now, then later.  It will take alot of time, but you will heal. 

Post # 13
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1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That is horrible and I am so sorry you’re going through this.  I’m going to play devil’s advocate here and say this: your in a lot of pain right now but at least you found out before you got married.  YOU did absolutely nothing wrong.  We are all going to tell you that but you’re going to feel like it was you for a little while.  Rest assured it was not.  But if that’s how you feel, feel it for a while.  We’re here to support you.

Post # 14
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393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Big hugs to you, dear! I’m so sorry. It will get better and time heals all wounds. Now you’re free to find the one you’re meant to be with who won’t cheat on you and will treat you like the awesome woman that you are! Hugs! (And a b*tch slap to him!)

Post # 15
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238 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yikes, this is awful of him 🙁 And like PPs have said, it is what HE has done – not you – and you deserve someone better than that.

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