(Closed) My Fiance Died

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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Newbee

Very sorry for your loss. Wish there was more I could say to help you through this. 

Post # 62
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Newbee
  • Wedding: Birmingham, Al

Praying for you. 

Post # 63
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You have my condolences. I wish I could offer you more than sympathy. I wish I could say or do something to make it better. I wish I could give you a time machine.

Post # 64
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Buzzing bee

As sad as this sounds am I the only one who finds this really really odd. I know I wouldn’t be on a wedding board if I’d just lost my Fiance and family. the post is just so strangely written It’s almost offensive.

 

katem73:  Everyone reacts to grief differently. The OP needs support right now, and this is a place for her to get it. I’ve found support here when I’ve needed it the most. The only thing that’s almost offensive is your post. For decency’s sake, if I were uncertain, I would just not post anything at all rather than run the risk of calling out someone who is genuinely needing an outlet for grief. And for what? To say, ‘Called it!’ when you find out she’s not being truthful? That’s worth more to you than looking like an ass in the event–and what is more likely the case–that this girl just wanted to reach out and connect with others in a time of a devastating loss? 

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 7 months ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 65
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Op, so sorry for ur loss. How truly heartbreaking.

Post # 66
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Blushing bee

MrsYokiman:  I’m not going to get into a tit for tat with anyone my opinion is on my previous reply to OP feel free to read that before you try to belittle me 

Post # 67
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m so sorry for your loss!!  may he rest in peace.  please take care of yourself.

Post # 68
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

So sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort during this difficult time.

Post # 69
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Blushing bee

I am so sorry for your loss.

Post # 70
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

katem73:  I have to admit, I thought the same thing you did as far as the wording and timing of the original post by OP. I imagine there are quite a few other people who also found this strange.

However, I quickly realized…

I, fortunately, have never experienced loss in the way that OP has in losing her fiancé, and I imagine many other bees —including you — have not either. So while I understand where you’re coming from, try to remember that everyone handles tragedies and the grieving process differently. It’s impossible to know what any of us would do in her situation.

Still, I can’t blame you for wanting to express your opinion. I certainly don’t think you deserve to be ridiculed or shamed for doing so, regardless of your difference in opinion. 

OP, I am so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace and solace. I cannot even begin to imagine what you’re going through.

Post # 71
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Muckenthaler Cultural Center

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love <3

Post # 72
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

i’m so sorry. make sure you let yourself grieve 

Post # 73
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Columbia, SC

I just can’t imagine. Prayers!

Post # 74
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you find happiness in your life!

Post # 75
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m so very sorry 🙁

 

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