(Closed) My Fiance Died

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 91
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Ghana

OMG!! oh dear, I am terribly sorry for your loss and I pray that God will strengthen you in these very difficult times, my heart goes to you and the entire family. stay strong.

Post # 92
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Post # 93
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477 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

com4rt:  My heart broke reading the title. I know your trying to be strong and yes his family lost 3 loved ones but you lost your partner in life. Not telling you how to grieve but just saying it okay to for how ever long you want and as publicly or privately as you choose. Which you might be doign know saying the thing you know eventually you would have to do, but even if you spent the past 6 days in your own little bubble handling it it’s still ok to still be feelign that way now. Plus you not only lost him but if you where close to his family you lost a mother and sister figure as well. My prayers go out to you and no matter what others say its whats best for you take care and I wish you nothing but the best.

Post # 94
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope for peace for you. Please don’t listen to anyone tell you how to grieve. Everyone experiences it differently. With every loss I’ve ever experience, I have had almost the same immediate reaction you posted here. It takes months for it to sink in. By that time, all the dust has settled and all the horrible arranging of affairs is over. I think it’s my mind’s survival mechanism so I can take one thing at a time. It’s not wrong, and it doesn’t mean you didn’t love him deeply. Please PM me if you need someone to talk to.

Post # 95
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Bumble bee

I cannot imagine the devastation you feel.  Lots of ((hugs))  and my prayers go out to you and your family!

Post # 96
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Sugar bee

com4rt:  I can’t imagine how you must be hurting. Being strong is great but you are allowed to spend time not being strong. And no one can determine that amount of time but you. You have to let yourself grieve, cry, yell, whatever you need to do.

I have no advice because I have no idea what I would do. Please take care of yourself though.

Post # 97
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442 posts
Helper bee

I am so sorry for your loss, you will be in many people thoughts and prayers. xx

Post # 98
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Bee Keeper

OP– so sorry for your loss! I can’t imagine how it must feel, and for other people inserting how they think they might handle this kind of grief is just stupid… don’t pay any attention to them.

 

katem73:  What an inappropriate “observation”. I hope you never have to experience something like that first hand to gauge whether her reaction is genuine or not. 

Post # 99
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Busy bee

I am so sorry for your loss. I don’t even know what to say, I would be beyond lost without my boyfriend, he is my anchor. Do whatever you need to get through this, I hope you can find peace.

Post # 100
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

com4rt:  I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙁 

Post # 101
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I’m so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and take time to heal. My thoughts are with you and all affected by this horrible accident. 

Post # 102
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Blushing bee

Mrs_Amanda:  again im not going to get into tit for tat with anyone as previously said – however have you ever thought maybe i have! 

Post # 103
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Bee Keeper

katem73:  Well if you have, and that is still your response, then I feel even more sorry for you. If you’re going to say stupid things, then be prepared to be called out for it. I don’t care if you don’t want to ” go tit for tat” or not. 

Post # 104
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I am so sorry for your loss…

Post # 105
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Helper bee

com4rt:  Omg… are you okay?  Is there anyone close to you that can help you through this?

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