(Closed) My Fiance Died

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 106
163 posts
Blushing bee

com4rt:  I can’t imagine what you are going through at this moment, but I can tell you that there’s all of us who are sending you love, prayers, good vibes and thoughts near and afar. Like others have stated, please allow yourself to react that comes natural, whether it’s crying, screaming, or just being alone. But remember to take time and breath for air with a close friend. If you’re up to it, keep updating and we hope to support you through it.


Post # 107
2480 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Such terrible news. I send my warmest wishes and deepest sympathy. I hope that you have people looking after you through this desperately sad time and remember, you don’t have to be strong for everyone else. You, too, have suffered a dreadful loss. 

Post # 108
7682 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

com4rt:  I am so sorry.  I am sending you prayers.  May God help you in your time of need, and may he surround you and heal you.



Post # 109
782 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

com4rt:  I am so very sorry to hear about your loss and I must say that I admire your strength. My prayers go out to you and his family!

Post # 110
1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m sorry for your loss.  I will keep you and your families in my prayers during this diffcult time. 

Post # 111
448 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I can’t imagine what you are going through right now.  My thoughts are with you and your family.

Post # 113
1789 posts
Buzzing bee

Oh, hunny! God speed and take care of yourself. Please keep your chin up. I could not imagine losing my SO. :'(

Post # 114
728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

This is so heartbreaking. I am so sorry. Sending you light and positive thoughts. Take care of yourself a day at a time and don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.

Post # 115
144 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t even know what to say I am so sorry to you and his family from the bottom of my heart. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. I hope you have the support network that you need, but just know we are all here too if you ever need to just rant or let you feelings out on paper. 


Will keep you in my prayers. xx

Post # 116
139 posts
Blushing bee

com4rt:  You sound like a loving and brave woman and I hope that you are doing okay! I cannot imagine going through this and I wish you all the best luck in the world.

Post # 117
998 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - City Hall!

praying for you 

Post # 118
3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


*hug* What a terrible thing to go through. My condolences. 

Send me a PM if you need to talk. I have lost many people in my life so I am very familiar with grief. 

Post # 119
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

com4rt:  My condolences to you, your family and his. I hope you find strength in the memories you’ve shared. I am sorry. 

Post # 120
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

My heart goes out to you. As cliche as it sounds, time really is a great healer. I lost the love of my life 15 years ago in 2 days time, and I still grieve for him and miss him. As you will too years down the line. But I promise it will get easier. And you will find happiness again.

The to poster who commented on the nature of the OP’s post: Grief does do weird things to you. I remember being in a fast-food place and someone asking to take me out and I said “sorry my boyfriend died last week” and thinking that it would have sounded to him that it was a long time ago and that I should be over it. I remember feeling like this a lot when I told people my boyfriend had just died. I even took my driving test between his death and the funeral. And I went out to memorial gigs for him. And had a last minute birthday party 3 weeks later that we had been planning together but I had obviously cancelled, but decided to make a friends gig into my b’day celebrations. But in reality I was numb. So so so numb. But doing those kinds of things and seeing people helped me to grieve. I don’t know what I would have done without them. The OP has clearly come here to get some support from people.. even if they are internet strangers. At tough times like this we need all the support we can get. 

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