- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
@LabAngel: Never beg, never say you’re going to change. When someone in a relationship wants space and is unhappy, these are the worst things you can do. Being clingy and giving up your self-worth is NOT attractive and I can guarantee it’s pushing him further away. As heartbreaking as it is you need to be mature about this and respect his need for space.
ETA: Just read your updated thread and that definitely changes things. That fact that you don’t consider him to be abusive BAFFLES me. That is the definition of abuse. And one day you will be so thankful that it is over. He will increase his aggressive behavior. You are worth more than that. Stay away from. Give him permanent space for him AND for you.