- 5 years ago
I would not give this man a second chance. I was with my ex for 4 years before I found out that he maxed his credit card for almost an entire year to “chat to porn stars online.” Meaning, he spent $1500 every month to do this! I had been paying for everything because he was always “broke”. When I found out, he promised he would stop and that he would cut up his credit card. I believed him. 6 months later I asked if he’s been chatting to porn stars and he admitted that he has. I cried, he cried, we stayed together. When I left to another country for my job, he ended up cheating on me after 2 months. Maybe mine was the worst case scenerio, and yours will be different.
People like that do not deserve second chances in my books.