(Closed) My fiancé is a wedding noob!

posted 4 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: How good is your fiancé with wedding knowledge?
    He wouldn't know it if it bit him on the ass : (24 votes)
    43 %
    Average : (19 votes)
    34 %
    Impressive (for a guy) : (13 votes)
    23 %
    Know? He's planning it! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 4
    Member
    2494 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    This is my fiance’s second marriage and he still knows nothing about weddings.

    That’s cute that he thought you wear your wedding dress!

    Post # 5
    Member
    3736 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Pinkmoon:  That’s kind of cute!

    Post # 6
    Member
    990 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Pinkmoon:  Tell him yes You do and but that it got stained to whatever color you are actually wearing for the shoot.

    I had an issue with the original photographer because she wanted us to take photos in my dress and his tux like a year before the wedding. Needless to say I got someone else. My groom seems well versed on weddings but he has been in tons

    Post # 8
    Member
    1193 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    My FI is very interested in the majority of the wedding planning. He started his own Pinterest page and made a wedding binder (with nothing in it so far lol). He has zero interest in flowers or decorations but he’s having a lot of fun picking out the music

    Post # 9
    Member
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @luluvohn:  my FI has no idea what Pinterest is!

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    2557 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    My FI certainly is a wedding noob.. but he’s trying and catching on rather quickly!  4 months ago he had never heard of a Chiavari chair and now he won’t settle for anything less at our tables!

    Post # 11
    Member
    7656 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    IThe BM called DH and asked him what color shirt he needs. DH said, “White, cream, they are all the same. Just pick one.” I said, “No they are not all the same. cream or off white is going to look dirty!” So they joked for months about the BM wearing a cream colored shirt to the wedding. Supposdily he had it with but he couldn’t bring himself to put it on as a joke 🙂

    Post # 12
    Member
    3583 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    FI and I were e-mailing each other at work the other week and I mentioned how I couldn’t wait for our vacation (was this past weekend) because I was getting stressed out with wedding planning.  

    His response: “Well, we have the venue, caterer, photographer, DJ, and you have your dress…all I need is to get my tux. There’s not much else left to do dear!”

    I proceeded to reply back with a massive list of things that need to be done, like booking our officiant…can’t really get married with no one to marry us!!

    Guys have no idea!  

    Post # 13
    Member
    6361 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We are both noobs (aren’t most engaged people? If it’s not a second wedding, or you’ve not been obsessed with weddings since before you could talk, how much do you really know about weddings before you get engaged?)

    However, he’s picking it up quickly (his natural good taste and artistic eye really help) and he’s definitely holding up his half of the planning 🙂

    Post # 14
    Member
    5014 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Haha my FI might not be quite as bad as yours, but he’s pretty clueless on weddings. Luckily, he’s really laid back and doesn’t really care about most of the decisions. He’s be happy going to city hall so he’s letting me do whatever I want 🙂

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