(Closed) My Fiance is having baby fever!!!

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Well, here’s the thing: you don’t.  You talk with him and explain what you would like to happen, and discuss it.  First come love, then comes marriage…he should see the progression here.  BUt it needs to be a discussion–and will likely require a compromise between the two of you. 

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Mine too. We are planning to have children shortly after we get married, but it’s been baby crazy city in our house for over a year. I think that being excited about having a baby ONE DAY and being excited about having a baby TOMORROW are different things.

Maybe sit him down and have him do up a budget for your post-wedding life together; one without kids, and one with kids immediately. Sometimes people (men especially) don’t realize how much children cost. That sticker shock might give you a few more years 🙂

Post # 6
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227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Mine is the same way.  We are a little older and have been together for 8 years, but we just got engaged in Feb and he is trying to rush the wedding so we can have kids asap!!!  I told him he should have thought about that  years ago!  LOL!

Post # 8
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1058 posts
Bumble bee

Mine too, what the hell is up with this!?!?

Post # 9
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227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Lilubird   you may be right! I think guys finally wake up one day and realize they aren’t getting any younger!  LOL!

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