(Closed) My fiance isn’t “in love” with the venue I ADORE

posted 6 years ago in Venue
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Aww, what didn’t he love about it?  Was it just the general feel or was there something he honestly didn’t like?

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh wow, that’s tough.  I grew up in MA, so I can kind of relate to him not being able to imagine the summer wedding in the middle of the winter but…ouch.  Where are you looking at, if you don’t mind me asking!

Post # 7
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Busy bee

My fiancé wasn’t loving any of my initial suggestions so I agreed to keep looking with him. Not long after, we found one we both LOVE and it’s so perfect for us – I’m glad we didn’t stop looking after the first few and settle for something that only one of us liked. I would suggest that you open your mind a bit and visit some other places with your Fiance. Either you will find something else that works for both of you OR he will realise that your intial choice is actually pretty awesome in comparison to what else is out there.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@EagerBeever:  Wow, it’s gorgeous!  You just made me a little homesick, haha!  I see why you love it – and also why looking in January could be deceptive.  But like BrightGreen said, keep an open mind and look at some other places.  You’ll have this one to compare to in your mind, but you may find a place you love even more, and that your Fiance Loves also.  You’ve got a good bit of time until the wedding, so I don’t think you’d be at risk for losing the date over the next couple of months.

Good luck!   

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If he’s not the type to move quickly, maybe he just needs a little while to get used to the idea and picture it. It’s a beautiful place. In the summer it would be just gorgeous with the views. Maybe just give him a few weeks for the idea to sink in.

Post # 12
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Busy bee

Yay, that’s awesome news! Once we had the venue picked it was a HUGE weight off my shoulders so I bet you feel just as relieved!

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@EagerBeever:  Fantastic!!!  I’m so glad to hear it worked out for you!  It’s such a gorgeous venue!

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