(Closed) My fiance saw me in my dress, is it the worst thing ever?

posted 10 years ago in Dress
Post # 17
3134 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I really don’t think it’s that bad!

Post # 18
4090 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012



I guess it is only horrible if you truly wanted it to be a surprise to him.  But even then, that’s not “horrible” – just not how you thought it would go down.  That’s OK, such is life and now just keep it in the closet until you are in the dress.

I showed my Fiance my dress.  It’s hanging in the spare bedroom closet.  To me it wasn’t a big deal if he saw the dress hanging on a hanger.  I would like to wait until our “first look” or groomal session before he seems me all dolled up in the dress.  But it would not be the worst thing in the world if it didn’t go as I envisioned it.

Post # 19
262 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

lol its ok!!! My Fiance and I sometimes look up dresses together– its totally normal.. he already knows which one ill choose anyway. btw he hasnt seen the FINAL look. just saw a glimpse of how his wife would appear before his eyes as she walks down the isle. Youll have ur hair, and make up done- ur bouquet, your veil, Basically you still havent really shown him to much and ull suprise him !


Post # 20
98 posts
Worker bee

I took my Fiance with me to pick my dress. In the end its his opinion that matters the most, im dressing up for him. I think its fine that hes seen your dress!

Post # 21
793 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Fi has seen me in the dress numerous times. I’m not superstitious.

He should have “that look on his face” when I walk down the aisle whether I’m wearing an expensive gown or the clothes I wear every day. <3

Post # 22
268 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Well, i dont think its a big deal!

Post # 23
7103 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@December2011Bride: No it’s not the worst thing ever. Sorry to hear the dress you wanted didn’t work out. Just hound all tje second hand dress websites, you still have time.

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