Post # 1
And I honestly don’t care. Is there anyone else out there like this?
I have a facebook group strictly for my bridesmaids so that I can keep them updated or ask for their advice. My fiance used my computer last night which is not a problem at all. When he opened up the browser my facebook was still up and he told me he checked out the group. He texted me last night while I was at work and told me that he accidentally saw 2 photos of me and he cried because I looked so beautiful.
I honestly think it is the sweetest thing ever. I have tried to get my Fiance to go wedding dress shopping with me but he is the traditional one between us. He refuses to see me before the wedding so I’m out of luck on that one. He won’t even tell me which dress he liked better. What a scoundrel!
Is there any other women out there who doesn’t care if their Fiance see’s them in their wedding dress?
Post # 3
@MsBrooklynA: I’m with you, I didn’t show him (a picture of me in them) but I didn’t really care either way. I did however show him a picture of the dress on someone else, I just wanted to be sure he didn’t think it was awful or really despise it 🙂
Post # 4
I asked Fiance if he wanted to see my dress before the wedding…he told me he’d wait.
But for real, that is such a sweet story. I can only hope that Fiance will be like that on our wedding day. But honestly he’s not very emotional, so I won’t be expecting it. It’s just sweet to think that seeing him seeing you in a wedding dress moved him so much 🙂 Awwww…
Post # 5
I don’t care, I wanted to know if he liked the dress I bought, but he said no. He is very trditional and doesnt want to see the dress before I am walking down the isle.
Post # 6
I totally care… I want him to be stunned when I walk down the aisle, I want to see his face. I don’t even want him to know how my hair will be and what my accessories will look like, lol.
Post # 7
Me! My fiance went with me dress shopping. I ended up getting the dress when he was not there, but he has seen me in pics of it…on purpose. Why not? It won’t be the same on your wedding day when you’re all dolled up.
Post # 8
That is so sweet! I wish my Fiance would have that kind of reaction when he sees me in my dress. The Fiance is a not very emotional so I doubt that he would cry. // I haven’t let the Fiance see my dress just so there would be some surprise on the wedding day. Plus, he doesn’t have much fashion sense so he couldn’t go dress shopping or give me an opinion anyway. lol
Post # 9
I’m so glad to hear there are so nontraditional ladies out there with me. My best friend was kind of mad that he saw me. I just don’t care.
@O.My.Heart: For some reason I just don’t get this. I’m more preoccupied with knowing that he thinks my dress looks good on me. I really trust his judgement so if he would look I would really like to hear what he has to say.
Post # 10
- Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards
I’m with you. Mine took my small camera with him on an overseas business trip and I forgot that there were two pictures of me in the dress on the memory card.
He saw me in a poufy, white dress. On a 2×3 inch screen. That in no way ruined our first look, which took place a year later, with the dress altered.
Post # 11
@MsBrooklynA: Oh, I should have added that his reaction was very sweet! I’m not sure I would trade a reaction like that for anything 😉
Post # 12
aw his response is so cute. I’m with you about not caring. I showed him pictures of me in all the dresses I tried on, stock images of my actual dress and I showed him pictures of me in my actual dress (without veil and covered my face!)
Post # 13
I willl be sewing my own dress, and he will eventually see the dress because I will be sewing it at home… and yeah, I don’t care if he sees me in it, because we have been together for 5 years or so…
Post # 14
I ordered my dress online, and totally tried it on for him! I wanted to know if he liked it! I don’t care at all.
Post # 15
@Mrs. Mink: I don’t even plan to purchase either of the dresses I think he saw so it truly does not bother me.
@MrsJuneBee: Thank you! I don’t think I would either. It seriously is one of the sweetest things he’s ever said.
@MrsWBS: I only wish he would be willing to look.
@happyface: We have been together that long as well. I really enjoy how open we are with one another and there will be plenty of surprises for him on that day.
Post # 16
Hah, I went home from dress shopping and showed him the pics of me in all the dresses, including the one I bought. I wanted to include him!
He didn’t remember a damn thing about the dress come the wedding day. We were having breakfast the morning of, and I randomly asked him if he remembered what the dress looked like. His reponse was “Ummm…it had strappy things right? And something that sparkled?” Bless his heart.