(Closed) My fiance told someone he didn't love me

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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1919 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

xcitedbee:  Why is he seeking other women at all!?

I am sorry bee… you deserve better. Sending many hugs, you need to leave him.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

xcitedbee:  oh hun! Hugs! No words of advice here just do what will make you happiest and healthiest.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

xcitedbee:   I’m so sorry.  Of course your heart is crushed – whose wouldn’t be.   *hugs*  Chatting with random women would be a dealbreaker.  Saying to anyone he didn’t love me would be a dealbreaker.   He has a lot of growing up to do, and you are already mature.  You deserve far better. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Leave him.  He’s a dumbass.  Maybe he even really does love you, but he’s fucking around on you & that means he doesn’t recognize what he has.  In the time before your impending wedding, he should be A) cherishing you, and B) shouting it from the rooftops.

Post # 6
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1792 posts
Buzzing bee

he was trying to cheat on you! he doesn’t love you 🙁 please don’t stay with him or listen to his lies!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

You know what you need to do. Sorry bee this guy is not your Prince Charming you thought he was.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I think the bigger question is, why is he on this type of phone chat line chatting up girls to begin with? I’m sorry bee, this is a big red flag.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

xcitedbee:  It is not just what was said but the fact that he is seeking out women to talk to and then lying about his relationship to get them to talk to him. I know it hurts but please run, don’t walk, away from this situation. It will only lead to even more heartache.

Post # 11
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223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Run, don’t walk, to the nearest exit. I’m very sorry, and it’s a small consolation, but at least you found out now.

Post # 12
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I am so sorry bee! He shouldn’t be active seeking to speak with another woman period. I tricked my ex the same way only it was years ago through social media. He fell for it and I kept it going to see how far he would take it. His dumb ass was busted so I dumped him. Its hard but you can’t live your life wondering if he meant it or not.

Post # 13
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310 posts
Helper bee

xcitedbee:  I am so sorry you are going through this.  While he may love you as much as he can love anyone, but he certainly doesn’t love you the way you deserve.    

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by  juicebar.
Post # 14
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310 posts
Helper bee

xcitedbee:  if you can’t end this relationship, you two need serious counseling.  What he’s doing will only end in more tears and heartbreak for you.  

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

Oh, he only said he didn’t love you so he could continue a conversation with an anonymous woman on a chat service. That makes it better.

Dump his ass. Whether or not he loves you doesn’t mean shit in light of the fact he doesn’t have basic integrity.

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